tigereyes1428 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 just wondered the opinions of men - would you be put off dating a woman who had three children at 31 by three fathers.
taiko Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Well it will stop the man dreaming about the 17 year old virgin, unless he has given up and will settle for what he can get. The rest of us it depends. More factors then the thumbnail bio will be considered. Were you a teenager with the first child? What happened with the last father? Besides the last father leaving what else is going on in your life? Have there been changes, Etc?
Author tigereyes1428 Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 the first time i was married young it did not work out, 2nd time was what i thought heaven - so in love engaged life great baby etc - then bombshell he had another fiance and a kid three weeks younger than our child together - was 24 devastated - broken - slowly began to get life in order etc met the father of my third child -(first two babies very planned and wanted) antibiotics and pill made pill fail - conceived youngest - both tried to make it work but its just not - i work and study -(want my degree) do my very best - kids are at top schools not a benefit scrounger but have been actually labelled as disgusting on here - I am 31 is my dating life seriously got to be over because i have fell i n love and had children previuosly - I am a confident and attractive person - but wonder genuinely if people are really as judgemental (men) re a woman who has kids - really appreciate genuine opinions on this -
seibert253 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 just wondered the opinions of men - would you be put off dating a woman who had three children at 31 by three fathers. Yes. As a matter of fact I wouldn't go there. If it were three children by the same father, not a problem Three kids by three fathers, to me it seems ito be irresponsible at best, something else at worse. No offense to you. I read your explainations in regards, but for me I couldn't overcome the doubts.
Author tigereyes1428 Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 ok so if a woman for instance was in an abusive relationship and had three kids by same man - she deserves more respect than me who had courage to leave and try to start life over?
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