brokenheart1 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I was seeing this guy for about 2 months. I know it's a really short time but we got involved close very quickly now that being said he kept asking me to be exclusive, well, twice to be specific. i was we should think about it because i found out he only got out of a LTR 3 months ago. He's totally hurt. It was his first relationship, we're both 25. It's been a while since I've emotionally commited to someone but I could really see me being with him long term plus he kept asking for exclusive dating. So afterwards, I notice he's a little down sometimes (emotionally) so I kept asking him why and he finally broke down and said he's still getting over his ex. which puts in my the DAMN rebound category. So now, what do I do, stay friends til he gets better or move on? I want to move on but a part of me wants to be there for him and see what happens because I think he's a sweet guy. I don't have trouble finding men but I just feel like him and I have a good chance to becoming something. I also realize there's a chance him and his ex might get back together, I'm not really sure. She left with another man. Now I"m really hurt.
lmauk Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Cut your losses. He may be sweet but its only been two months - im not saying that from an emotional pov i mean making memories etc. Itll be easier to move on the less time you spend with him. Rebound is a nice way of putting it ill tell you straight- HES USING YOU TO GET OVER HER. which is selfish. 6 m onths + down the l ine hell sack you off. Then your in the S***. You make the decision. who knows maybe someday youll cross paths but for now if you carry on dating him its like emotional suicide. Good Luck xxx
LovelyDaze Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Cut your losses. He may be sweet but its only been two months - im not saying that from an emotional pov i mean making memories etc. Itll be easier to move on the less time you spend with him. Rebound is a nice way of putting it ill tell you straight- HES USING YOU TO GET OVER HER. which is selfish. 6 m onths + down the l ine hell sack you off. Then your in the S***. You make the decision. who knows maybe someday youll cross paths but for now if you carry on dating him its like emotional suicide. Good Luck xxx Do it now. Upon hearing that me ex had this issue with getting engaged to much younger girls(He's 31) and leaving them before he marries them, I should have ran screaming. I wanted to be in love with him so much that I ignored all the signs. Get out before you get hurt worse....and oh you will.
Zeegagge Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Leave him. It'll work out for the best in the end. He's on the rebound he probably has tendency to invest in it emotionally more than he otherwise would. almost to a point of falseness.
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