ExiledLyCan Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 7months now. Just last week one of her family's friends from church had a wedding and her family was invited to go. Afterward many of the wedding pictures were posted on her facebook by her friends. I noticed that in a few of them she was dancing with other guys. I assumed it was a friendly dance, nothing too personal and space invading since in the pictures it looked like mild dancing, and stuff like this happens at wedding so i don't blame her for doing so. However seeing her dance with another man does bother me somewhat. Am i being too sensitive on to matter and overreacting? Should i approach her about this or just let it pass by? Thanks in advance
carolinawanderer Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I wouldn't worry too much about this. I think this would only be a problem if she were grinding on guys at a club, or something like that. That would piss me off to no end. But this sounds like nothing. Don't bring it up, you don't want to sound possessive.
DustySaltus Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I dance with EVERYONE when I go to weddings. It's just about having fun. Agreed, don't even bring it up.
betamanlet Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 7months now. Just last week one of her family's friends from church had a wedding and her family was invited to go. Afterward many of the wedding pictures were posted on her facebook by her friends. I noticed that in a few of them she was dancing with other guys. I assumed it was a friendly dance, nothing too personal and space invading since in the pictures it looked like mild dancing, and stuff like this happens at wedding so i don't blame her for doing so. However seeing her dance with another man does bother me somewhat. Am i being too sensitive on to matter and overreacting? Should i approach her about this or just let it pass by? Thanks in advance Since it's at a wedding, it's probably not that big of a deal. however if she does it at clubs, it means she does it for attention, so I doubt she would be very trustworthy if she's seeking attention from guys.
mushmush Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 After 7 months why are you not secure in the relationship? Dude, she danced with people at a wedding.. what are you freaking about???
silic0ntoad Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 After 7 months why are you not secure in the relationship? Dude, she danced with people at a wedding.. what are you freaking about??? Agreed. CHillax homeslice. The lampshade is nice and relaxing over here. Chill in it.
New Again Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Don't say a word to her about this. You're overreacting and being way too sensitive.
Pizzaman81 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Just listen to Careless Whisper by George Michael "I'm never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool I should have known better than to cheat a friend And waste a chance that i've been given So i'm never gonna dance again The way i danced with you"
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