Pizzaman81 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 It's over I think.. I have reached critical mass. I think I have too many dates I am juggling around that I find my self shelling out money on dates and not even taking this seriously anymore. I'm burnt out. Why did I do this to myself with this cursed multidating? I don't even remember some of their names, but at the same time I feel I should get to know them all... POKEMON! COLLECT THEM ALL. I definetely went this the wrong way this time. I think i'm going to have to give up a few of them and concentrate on one. The rest will just have to wait...
Johnny M Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 It's over I think.. I have reached critical mass. I think I have too many dates I am juggling around that I find my self shelling out money on dates and not even taking this seriously anymore. I'm burnt out. Why did I do this to myself with this cursed multidating? I don't even remember some of their names, but at the same time I feel I should get to know them all... POKEMON! COLLECT THEM ALL. I definetely went this the wrong way this time. I think i'm going to have to give up a few of them and concentrate on one. The rest will just have to wait... Quality over quantity, my friend. If you're dating that many women, either you're a total pimp or your standards are too low.
Author Pizzaman81 Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 Quality over quantity, my friend... That's what I tell them when they ask how come my family is so small.
Author Pizzaman81 Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 You just wanted to brag! I think it came off like that. But anyway, i am quitting multidating. That's all I wanted to say. I got one girl that I think is really good. I shall spend all my efforts on her.
Crazy Magnet Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Is there one that you like the most? Or maybe two that you like the most? I finally picked the man I thought was my best match. I admit, it feels weird to be in a relationship after being single for so long. The title "girlfriend" is so odd after all the multi dating, but it's nice to be able to focus everything on one really special guy.
Ruby Slippers Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 POKEMON! COLLECT THEM ALL. Pizzaman, you just keep getting better.
bwidger Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 It's over I think.. I have reached critical mass. I think I have too many dates I am juggling around that I find my self shelling out money on dates and not even taking this seriously anymore. I'm burnt out. Why did I do this to myself with this cursed multidating? I don't even remember some of their names, but at the same time I feel I should get to know them all... POKEMON! COLLECT THEM ALL. I definetely went this the wrong way this time. I think i'm going to have to give up a few of them and concentrate on one. The rest will just have to wait... Wow, that's awesome! I'd want to pick one eventually as well if I was in your boat... I have some questions for you: 1) How often are you dating these women a week? 2) Are they responsive towards your calls? 3) How often do you call? Only to date or sometimes just to chat? 4) How long have you been seeing these women?
Author Pizzaman81 Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 Wow, that's awesome! I'd want to pick one eventually as well if I was in your boat... I have some questions for you: 1) How often are you dating these women a week? 2) Are they responsive towards your calls? 3) How often do you call? Only to date or sometimes just to chat? 4) How long have you been seeing these women? 1) each women about once a week 2) They are all responsive on calls, IM, etc 3) I've only been talking on the phone maybe more than just set up dates for two of them. The rest just call to set up dates. 4) average 1.5 months.
bwidger Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 1) each women about once a week 2) They are all responsive on calls, IM, etc 3) I've only been talking on the phone maybe more than just set up dates for two of them. The rest just call to set up dates. 4) average 1.5 months. And your fine with only seeing one once a week? What happens if you get serious with this one girl and you want to see her more and she can't find the time? Are you complacent with only dating once a week? I ask this because this is what I'm going through...
Author Pizzaman81 Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 And your fine with only seeing one once a week? What happens if you get serious with this one girl and you want to see her more and she can't find the time? Are you complacent with only dating once a week? I ask this because this is what I'm going through... I think I am at a stage right now where I would like to date this one girl more often. Therefore, I think might as well just concentrate on her!
bwidger Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I think I am at a stage right now where I would like to date this one girl more often. Therefore, I think might as well just concentrate on her! Right, and if you start wanting to see this girl more often and she doesn't have the time, would you be ok with that or want to move on?
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I love seeing additional threads about what a crock multi-dating is. Thanks for sharing.
mushmush Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 eh, for the moment i've just given up on dating.. drinking is my friend atm.... I've noiced a disturbing habbit of late.. I tend to push aside the good girls and go for the girls that need a bit of work or are damaged. few regrets as i've let the ones that would have truly been good for me slip to the wayside.
New_Life08 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 LOL! Yeah, it can get expensive and calling one by the wrong name might not be go over too well.
ordinary_girl Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 1) each women about once a week 2) They are all responsive on calls, IM, etc 3) I've only been talking on the phone maybe more than just set up dates for two of them. The rest just call to set up dates. 4) average 1.5 months. and they still give you the time of day? wow. that really suprises me.
silic0ntoad Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 This is why multi dating is a total waste of time. You can never get to truly know someone when all these other people are in the picture.
donnamaybe Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I think it came off like that. But anyway, i am quitting multidating. That's all I wanted to say. I got one girl that I think is really good. I shall spend all my efforts on her. But this is why multi-dating is good. What if you had focused all your efforts on the first gal you had started dating and missed out on the good one? You date several and choose the best.
silic0ntoad Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 But this is why multi-dating is good. What if you had focused all your efforts on the first gal you had started dating and missed out on the good one? You date several and choose the best. I won't multi date. I'll go on a few dates with someone (all the while talking to others) until I decide weather or not the one I am seeing is worth it. IDK, I am very patient with these types of things, so I'd rather take my time getting to know one person at a time so I can fully absorb who they are before I make any choices. I guess whatever works for you, right?
donnamaybe Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I won't multi date. I'll go on a few dates with someone (all the while talking to others) until I decide weather or not the one I am seeing is worth it. IDK, I am very patient with these types of things, so I'd rather take my time getting to know one person at a time so I can fully absorb who they are before I make any choices. I guess whatever works for you, right? Right on! I tend to either "feel it" or not after only a couple dates, and I don't necessarily mean in a "wanna do ya" kinda way. Therefore, multi-dating worked well for me. As for spending all your money, Pizzaman, when people are in the beginning stages of dating, there shouldn't be only ONE person doing all the spending. Well, at any point really. My guy and I spend on dates as we can and as our individuals paydays coincide with the dates. Neither of us has ever complained.
bwidger Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 and they still give you the time of day? wow. that really suprises me. Man, there is so much different viewpoints on this subject. Last night I was thinking about how this site just confuses me with all the different views. I say just go with what feels good, works and what your heart says. This site isn't good if your looking for advise unless you know what kind of advise to get, which isn't likel yif your looking for advise..lol..so I'm done...
ordinary_girl Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Man, there is so much different viewpoints on this subject. Last night I was thinking about how this site just confuses me with all the different views. I say just go with what feels good, works and what your heart says. This site isn't good if your looking for advise unless you know what kind of advise to get, which isn't likel yif your looking for advise..lol..so I'm done... I think it's preferable to ask advice from people you know and trust. I find views here interesting though, it helps me to work out others' thought process.
Crazy Magnet Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 and they still give you the time of day? wow. that really suprises me. I multi-dated several guys for a month or a little more. Then chose the best one. I'd say they still give him the time of day b/c they are doing the same thing maybe? Or maybe Pizzaman is just the MAN, like a super stud or something!
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