kms Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 (edited) I've been dating a girl for about two months. We are both in college. She is sophomore and I'm senior. We went to several dates, mostly dinners and movies. We kissed after the third date and started holding hands in front of friends in pubic. Since then we've just been doing the goodbye kiss at the end of the date. I think she is kinda conservative so I don't think she would be up for sex anytime soon. That's fine with me. But I really wanted to make out with her. Neither of us has much experiece. But I like her a lot and I think she likes me too. So I don;t want to screw this up. Should I be more patient or we are moving too slow? Is making out a big deal for girls? How should I initiate making out with her? Edited January 6, 2010 by kms
mushmush Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 2 months and you have not even made out yet??? ffs way way to slow.. Make a move, pin her against a wall and tell her how hot she is!
Author kms Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 I'm not sure about that. I'm shy myself and I don't think I'm the type of guy who would pin a girl against the wall and force to make out with her.
OceanTropic Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Just do it! She obviously likes you, even enough to publicly display that you two are an item. She might be shy, but if you leave her no choice, she will give in...and she will enjoy it!!
Yukikazi Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I'm not sure about that. I'm shy myself and I don't think I'm the type of guy who would pin a girl against the wall and force to make out with her. Noones saying to force anything But you do have to push the limits to see how far it goes.. Someone has to push the limits or you wont get anywhere
Author kms Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 Thanks guys. Any girls wanna chime in? Would like to hear your perspective.
SOLACEMENT Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Same thing ....lol Don't going pinning her against the wall...but two months is long enough Make the first move ... most girls are to shy too ... and if you can hold hands in public..most likely she is just waiting for you..So go ahead...:-)
Johnny M Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I've been dating a girl for about two months. We are both in college. She is sophomore and I'm senior. We went to several dates, mostly dinners and movies. We kissed after the third date and started holding hands in front of friends in pubic. Since then we've just been doing the goodbye kiss at the end of the date. I think she is kinda conservative so I don't think she would be up for sex anytime soon. That's fine with me. But I really wanted to make out with her. Neither of us has much experiece. But I like her a lot and I think she likes me too. So I don;t want to screw this up. Should I be more patient or we are moving too slow? Is making out a big deal for girls? How should I initiate making out with her? The whole "conservative girl" thing is total BS. Conservative chicks gets as horny as everybody else - probably more so, in fact. Chances are, she wants to make out and sleep with you, but she is too shy to be more forward. It's up to you to get her in bed.
mushmush Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 well i will add I was not saying "pinning her against a wall" as a way of forcing her to kiss her. All I was saying is that you have to show her you not only like her as a person but you also find her the most absolutly stunning beautiful creature on the planet and that you desire her not only on an intellectual level but on a sexual level as well. All girls like to feel they are sexy, right? I tend to be on the shy side myself. I treat woman with respect, treat them right.. never screw them around... but man there is nothing like letting go of your inhibitions and giving in to the passion with someone you truly desire. make her feel desired. make her feel the passion.
thatguy85 Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Way too slow. Once upon a time, a guy (me) liked a girl a lot... went out with her on a number of dates, made out with her once after some drinks, made out with her a second time after some drinks, then did the end of date kiss thing the two following dates. This all happened within a 2-3 month span. Guess what happened next: FRIENDZONE. Moral of the story: Backwards progress is a good and fast way to being her friend. Make a move.
lordWilhelm Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I think it's okay to take it more slowly, especially if you're both inexperienced. But you should probably be escalating things now to show her you're interested, or it'll just die out... it's up to you.
deux ex machina Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Can you be friend zoned after kiss? Yes. Pick up the pace a little!
sparkle Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Yesss - you can definitely be friend zoned after a kiss. Trust me, I've had a handful of "nice guys" give me that soft romantic innocent kiss, but not take it much further - whether they were nervous or whatnot. Even if a guy is shy, during a makeout session you can be a little more aggressive (not forceful, just a little more "eager"). Test her boundaries and push her limits - a little further each time - she will stop you when she's gone far enough that day for her comfort level. The next time around, add a little bit more.
colosseum Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Wow man. Pick up the pace or she will leave you. Nothing personal. And don't be shy and don't think too much; she obviously likes you and thinking too much will just bite you in the a**. Go for it, if she doesn't like the dance she'll say it.
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