SoVeryConfused Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I have been dating a guy for about three months and everything has been great so far. I actually had him meet my children last month because I wanted to be sure they would like him before the relationship went a further. I found myself falling for him, a guy out of my type that I normally would not even consider dating. I figured considering my track record that this was probably a good thing. He was having trouble downloading video from a knex rollercoaster to his computer (he is not very good with computers) so I hooked it up and attempted to download the video. It brought up the windows media thing in vista. There were naked pictures of women in the file. He had told me when we started dating that he cleared out the pictures on his computer because he did not want to cause any problems. He knew I did not like porn or the person I was seeing looking at porn. I did not ask him to do this, it was of his decision. I looked at the dates on the pictures and they were downloaded in December (last month). I confronted him and they were pictures of his ex-fwb. I did not mind before that he was still friends with her but I do now. Especially considering she sent him nude pictures through email on the 29th and he actually downloaded them on his computer. That is who most of the pictures were of. He ended up crying and upset because he did not want to lose me over this. He immediately deleted the pictures and said he would get rid of his computer. I told him that I did not want him to get rid of the computer he just needed to be mature enough not to do something like that. I am not sure what to do...I am tempted to just get rid of him. I don't need this headache, I went through this with my ex-husband. But at least with my ex-husband it was people he didn't know. Any advice would be appreciated.
Buckeye Candy Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Dump him. Hold out for the guy who is right for you. Not necessarily an anti-porn guy but at least a man with some boundaries. You'll be glad you did.
New Again Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Did he explain why his "ex" FWB was still sending him nude photos of herself? Personally,if my bf was receiving nude photos from ANY girl while we're dating I would consider that cheating and I would dump him.
Star Gazer Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Did he explain why his "ex" FWB was still sending him nude photos of herself? Personally,if my bf was receiving nude photos from ANY girl while we're dating I would consider that cheating and I would dump him. Yo tambien. If he hasn't cheated, he was about to before he got caught...and that's reason enough to dump him.
sassygurl129 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I agree with all the others. Dump him. It's only been 3 months. You're right, you don't need the headache.
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