Dark_of_the_Moon Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 (edited) Life is really annoying me right now. I know life is SO not fair but, jeez. Enough already. Ok...three weeks ago, I met a nice guy. Nice and funny...he and I have a lot of shared interests, did I say he is nice...and cute even. Ok....so we have been talking and joking around and he invites me out. Sounds good right? Ok....I decide to go. (Here is where the world caved in) I get there, so excited, happy as a clam....and he is standing next to my EX and his live in girlfriend I was dumped for!!!!! Damn it....my nice guy is friends with my bastard ex. Ok...my first thought was to run like a scared goat....but I DID NOT. I stayed...walk right up to Nice guy and my nemesis and the bimbo. (Im not too bitter) and was as nice and sweet as I could be.....actually more than that. I was all over Nice guy like a duck on a june bug. Yes...I became wickedly flirtatious. Nice guy loved it....he is rather into me at the moment. EX was....obviously flabbergasted. Bimbo is clueless. I need an Academy Award for that performance. But now what do I do? Nice guy likes me....I liked him. My EX....oh he is apologetic NOW and wanting me back....what a joke!!!! He has been e-mailing me and calling....I am SO not home. But, I have not been home to Nice guy either. I feel so guilty, why is that? How can I be around Nice guy....knowing I can't tell my Ex to go f*** himself. I'm going to go to bed for another week of wasted life. Edited January 5, 2010 by Dark_of_the_Moon
Blueberry7691 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Wow! Drama!! Sorry, I couldn't help but laugh. Boy, it felt good to laugh like that!! Does the Nice Guy know your Ex was your Ex??? I say, if you like Nice Guy, go for it!! It's good to keep busy for a few days before returning phone calls (even if you're watching t.v. all day).
GrayClouds Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Life is really annoying me right now. I know life is SO not fair but, jeez. Enough already. Amen sister. You right life is not fair, how in the heck did you get so lucky. Not only did you get a date with someone your generally interested in, you got the opportunity to play a bit in front of the EX. Now do not tell me you gong to get silly a try to make this thing a problem? Heck your too smart of a gal for that. You know the EX is just having a momentary change of heart, Besides would you want be sloppy seconds after the EX downgraded? Just as I expected, nope. So that leave you and the new guy. Yes, he may have bought into your little "acting" a bit to much too. How could he not, you were good. So how do you handle that? If you are interested in him, that is easy peazy. BE HONEST. Meet up for coffee, tell him the whole story, maybe even offering a bit of an apology for level of your flirtatious behavior, but tell him it came from a genuine level of interest but was influenced by the function of temporary insanity. Tell him you promise no more little games Tell him that you would like to get to know him better but at a more reasonable speed. Then put yourself out there and ask if he would be interested in that and no hard feelings if not. Then give him an honest smile. Now if your not interested in the new guy, tell him all of the same, but rather then asking him if he is interested, tell him that this whole thing has shown you that your not over your EX yet and your very sorry. Tell him you wish him well. While you do that the rest of us will be here licking our wounds and being a bit envious of your good luck.
Silent-Night Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 You killed two birds with one stone there (seeming the bimbo is clueless and wouldn't count anyway lol).
Author Dark_of_the_Moon Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Thank you....Ok I made myself jaugh just now. I needed the reality check. Yes Blueberry and Silent-Night.... I can see the humor I guess. I take life too seriously. Greyclouds....YOU are the best, so smart and thank you for telling me exactly what I should do. You are spot on. *massive hugs to you* Nice guy does not know about EX, unless EX told him, which I got the impression he had not. So, Honesty time....with myself and New Guy. I wish I was braver than I feel at the moment.
ginyi1111 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 LOL! Ultimate revenge! I would have liked to be in your shoes!
HeavenOrHell Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Me too!! I am SO envious of you right now! LOL! Ultimate revenge! I would have liked to be in your shoes!
GrayClouds Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Thank you....Ok I made myself jaugh just now. I needed the reality check. Yes Blueberry and Silent-Night.... I can see the humor I guess. I take life too seriously. Greyclouds....YOU are the best, so smart and thank you for telling me exactly what I should do. You are spot on. *massive hugs to you* Nice guy does not know about EX, unless EX told him, which I got the impression he had not. So, Honesty time....with myself and New Guy. I wish I was braver than I feel at the moment. Thank you for your kind words. Because of those I will give in and let you do just a little more acting... when you meet up with him just act like a brave person.
Author Dark_of_the_Moon Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 *laughs* Thank you again Grayclouds.....you all have greatly improved my mood!
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