BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 (edited) I started seeing this woman about a month ago and it started as me helping her with her writing, but we started hooking up early on too. We have done everything, except have sex and she wants to. She is a 26 year old virgin, and we've already tried having sex once but couldn't. I don't think she realized it is going to hurt, but she said she still wants to again. I'm not monstrously big, but it's 8 inches with girth so it's not small either. I want to know the best way to do it with minimal pain, and would appreciate any advice. I'm also wondering, what to do once I do "get in". Should I only go maybe half way in, or should I just go all the way in so she gets used to it? Will she be able to orgasm the first time? I also just want to have an idea of what to expect, I've had a lot of sex, but never with a virgin. Edited January 5, 2010 by BackUpOrGetStung
Els Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I'd recommend getting her really turned on and then starting with fingers. Once she's comfortable with a few inside, could start getting the head in sloooowwwly and gently. I really doubt you'd get it all the way in the first time, or that she'd orgasm (unless you're really good with the clit or find the G-spot!) I've not had vaginal intercourse yet, and I frankly can't imagine how my bf's penis could possibly fit all the way in (and he's, uh, Asian), much less an 8-inch one.
thats what i said Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 (edited) I started seeing this woman about a month ago and it started as me helping her with her writing, but we started hooking up early on too. We have done everything, except have sex and she wants to. She is a 26 year old virgin, and we've already tried having sex once but couldn't. I don't think she realized it is going to hurt, but she said she still wants to again. I'm not monstrously big, but it's 8 inches with girth so it's not small either. I want to know the best way to do it with minimal pain, and would appreciate any advice. I'm also wondering, what to do once I do "get in". Should I only go maybe half way in, or should I just go all the way in so she gets used to it? Will she be able to orgasm the first time? I also just want to have an idea of what to expect, I've had a lot of sex, but never with a virgin. I'm in my mid twenties and only lost my virginity last year. The guy I slept with sounds very similar to you (in size) and it definitely hurt - A LOT. We had sex probably 3 more times (over the next few days) before it stopped hurting. After the 3rd or 4th time, it started feeling good. So no way, I don't think she could orgasm the first time unless you're very good at doing what Elswyth said. And no matter how you go about doing it, if it hurts her then it's going to hurt. So just be patient and listen to her. If she says stop or slow down, then do so. Edited January 5, 2010 by thats what i said
phineas Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 This is the perfect time to suggest anal so she can keep her virginty longer.
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