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Hey my story is super long and to be honest ive done the whole write it down rah rah and i really cant be arsed to write it all again - in a nutshell we dated for 6 months it was amazing HE was amazing just perfect. He had a few issues- dont we all?

Then out of nowhere he dumpes me, no signs nothing. He says this is the first time hes made a head over heart decision in his life. so we go no contact. i delte everything remove his from facebook etc.

 

But now its changed were b ack in contact he still has me as his screen saver he still says he loves me, cant stand the sight of me being with someone else.

 

Now ive been through a breakup before and i did it- it was awful and sooooo hard but i did and i am so over him. but this one im totally strung out. I cant cut him out even with NC previously every godamm day minute hour second hes in my thoughts. Ive been to councelling. Ive done it all by the book- no games, been working out, sorting my room, got rid of photos, booked holidays with friends. Its NOT working i miss him terribly.

 

We met and has a huge chat. He said I love you, were so good together and i miss you etc and i did the whole - the only reason you miss me is becasue you choose every day not to be with me. he was like Its not like that i regret it etc. Honestly i am a realist i really am and to all you guys i probably sound really naieve right now but i can normally smell BS a mile away and he is a genuinely nice amazing loving guy there is not a bad bone in his body.

 

So we sleep together - yeh i know, i know bad news. but it wasnt like that at all HOWEVER i do understand that hes still not begging me back so essentially that was a mistake (although i really dont feel bad about it which is odd because it totally goes against my morals etc) So i decided either way we are not together so i will NOT communicate with him - he wont leave me alone now. Now its like i dumped him?!

 

What the s**t is going on?!

 

Please reply i really need help!!

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Did he say he wanted to start the relationship again?

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he wants to see how it goes - i know what your going to say...

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he wants to see how it goes - i know what your going to say...

 

If only we all had such clairvoyance ;)

 

Ill just say that, "See how it goes" is no different than "maybe" to me. Are you ok if you believe that too?

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If only we all had such clairvoyance ;)

 

Ill just say that, "See how it goes" is no different than "maybe" to me. Are you ok if you believe that too?

 

An Ex-boy/girlfriend's definition of "See how it goes":

 

A. Stick around in case I don't meet anybody else.

B. Be my girl/boyfriend when my current love interest gets on my nerves.

C. Be my girl/boyfriend when I AM dumped by somebody

D. I need my ego brushed so you must still love me even though I don't really want to be with you again.

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