Howitzer Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I keep thinking about my ex today. It's not too bad really, but I just feel like I can't shake it. Brief summary: She broke up a month ago with me. It was amicable, though hard on me. I'm doing much better now, picked back up with the rest of my life mostly. More info at this page. I think I'm still hopeful that we'll get back together at some point. The more I think about it, the less likely it seems. It doesn't help that today she told me that she thought about me a lot (she's not a chain jerker, not intentionally anyway). I'm not even thinking specifically about anything...so I guess I just miss her. Want to talk to her. Anyone out there feeling like this too? It would help if I knew I wasn't alone
canadaman111 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I keep thinking about my ex today. It's not too bad really, but I just feel like I can't shake it. Brief summary: She broke up a month ago with me. It was amicable, though hard on me. I'm doing much better now, picked back up with the rest of my life mostly. More info at this page. I think I'm still hopeful that we'll get back together at some point. The more I think about it, the less likely it seems. It doesn't help that today she told me that she thought about me a lot (she's not a chain jerker, not intentionally anyway). I'm not even thinking specifically about anything...so I guess I just miss her. Want to talk to her. Anyone out there feeling like this too? It would help if I knew I wasn't alone I feel the exact same way. My wife moved out new years day. I love her so much and hope so much we can get back together. As much as I like to talk to her having to say goodbye to her hurts a lot. it seems better not to have contact. Having kids makes it so hard to do that though. So yes there are others sharing your pain, and I wishe you the best of luck
singlegirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Yeah, I am hurting too and I had to let him go as he wasn't who he pretended to be, absolutely devistating....Hang in there, this too shall pass
tiredofit Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I keep thinking about my ex today. It's not too bad really, but I just feel like I can't shake it. Brief summary: She broke up a month ago with me. It was amicable, though hard on me. I'm doing much better now, picked back up with the rest of my life mostly. More info at this page. I think I'm still hopeful that we'll get back together at some point. The more I think about it, the less likely it seems. It doesn't help that today she told me that she thought about me a lot (she's not a chain jerker, not intentionally anyway). I'm not even thinking specifically about anything...so I guess I just miss her. Want to talk to her. Anyone out there feeling like this too? It would help if I knew I wasn't alone Seems alot of us are struggling today.
drew86 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I sat in my car today with my cell in hand thinking about texting my ex (I deleted her from it by I can't forget the number) and it took a lot of willpower to put it away. I really miss her, I hate being alone right now. I was really angry too. So yeah, maybe its because its a Monday:laugh:... Good luck everybody
singlegirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 well done drew, tomorrow is anothe rday for us all...Hope it's a better one
Author Howitzer Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Keep in mind the reason for doing NC: to focus on your life, to find positives and things in your life, without your ex. It makes it tons easier to do NC when you know why you're doing it.
ginyi1111 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 The only way that I could keep up with NC is to keep reminding myself that he broke up with me! We have to always remind ourselves that they broke up with us, so it is pointless for us to contact them or keep thinking what they said to us 'I really love you' 'I care about you' etc BECAUSE THEY DUMPED US!!! WHAT THEY SAID DO NOT MATTER ANYMORE!! Because if it was true they would have stayed. Sorry being a bit emo today cause just finished a crying sesh after reading his old texts telling me how much he loved me.
Author Howitzer Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 I would delete those. No need to keep them right? If he comes back to you he'll send you more texts anyways.
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