dreamergrl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 You ignored my post about willing to bet, which means you're prob not willing to. Yet you are somehow so certain that I'm wrong, while scared to bet. "I finally told him after two months..." Not to mention you said previously you didn't know what you wanted. You played a game. You were engaging in sexual activities with him, and you take that back from him. That is a game. But you'll never admit it.
Author conehead Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Our breakup was hurtful to both sides. And also, it's OVER. The sex thing was not a game and even if it was it was over after the breakup. He started this post breakup game with his email, which I responded not to continue but to end it. I think you ignored this part as well, since you seems to once again nitpick and not look at the big picture.
Author conehead Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 "I finally told him after two months..." Not to mention you said previously you didn't know what you wanted. You played a game. You were engaging in sexual activities with him, and you take that back from him. That is a game. But you'll never admit it. Yet you are once again unwilling to bet. Re-read those threads girl. I dated him for 9 months, and only did I change my mind and started doubting things the last 2 months hence the thread title....see you once again nitpick the title and ignore the details of the thread. It took me 2 months to finally decide. And I bet you are going to say that well I could have told him once I started having doubts instead of waiting 2 months, but that in itself is a really really bad argument. Look, if you have doubts about say your job, you don't tell your boss that until you finally decide to quit, just in case you in the end decide to stay. It's called common sense.
dreamergrl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Our breakup was hurtful to both sides. And also, it's OVER. The sex thing was not a game and even if it was it was over after the breakup. He started this post breakup game with his email, which I responded not to continue but to end it. I think you ignored this part as well, since you seems to once again nitpick and not look at the big picture. Uhh I am looking at the big picture. You gave him a sexual relationship, then you took it away. You said so many times that you didn't know what you wanted, wrote a post titled "I finally told him". The big picture is how it all started, which is with you taking away something intimate from him. I haven't ignored crap. I've read everything clearly. I just don't agree with you. I get that in your mind you think he started the game, but he really didn't. There is no point in arguing with you though, you refuse to take responsibility for your part in this.
dreamergrl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Yet you are once again unwilling to bet. Re-read those threads girl. I dated him for 9 months, and only did I change my mind and started doubting things the last 2 months hence the thread title....see you once again nitpick the title and ignore the details of the thread. It took me 2 months to finally decide. And I bet you are going to say that well I could have told him once I started having doubts instead of waiting 2 months, but that in itself is a really really bad argument. Look, if you have doubts about say your job, you don't tell your boss that until you finally decide to quit, just in case you in the end decide to stay. It's called common sense. Really? You want me to bet pretend money? Grow up. You were with him that long, you should be mature enough to have a conversation about doubts. A relationship isn't a job. If you weren't sure about something, you shouldn't have been doing what you were doing. You are right, you shouldn't be having sex, sex is for those who are mature enough to handle a conversation after 9 months of being with a person. And yeah, after that long of giving him sex, and taking it away, it is a game.
Author conehead Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Uhh I am looking at the big picture. You gave him a sexual relationship, then you took it away. You said so many times that you didn't know what you wanted, wrote a post titled "I finally told him". The big picture is how it all started, which is with you taking away something intimate from him. I haven't ignored crap. I've read everything clearly. I just don't agree with you. I get that in your mind you think he started the game, but he really didn't. There is no point in arguing with you though, you refuse to take responsibility for your part in this. Read my post above. Well, you refuse to look at the big picture.
Author conehead Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Really? You want me to bet pretend money? Grow up. You were with him that long, you should be mature enough to have a conversation about doubts. A relationship isn't a job. If you weren't sure about something, you shouldn't have been doing what you were doing. You are right, you shouldn't be having sex, sex is for those who are mature enough to handle a conversation after 9 months of being with a person. And yeah, after that long of giving him sex, and taking it away, it is a game. I'm not saying a RS is a job, but that was an analogy. The betting was not taken literally, but rather if you think in your mind if you're willing to bet, you'd probably say no because you will lose. That is how certain I am of my thoughts since they are after all my thoughts. It's sad that you had to resort to demeaning someone else by saying stuff like 'grow up' in order to make yourself feel better. Just judging by the way you speak so crudely, I can tell that you are not the type of person willing to have a nice, mature conversation. good luck.
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