need some because she doesnt know if she wants to stay together

[phantompeg]

hi, i have been married for 12 yrs and have 2 wonderful children. recently my wife has brought to my attention that she is unsure anymore and thinks perhaps we should separate. i have never cheated nor do i think she has and i trust her 150%. her reasons are we do not always like the same things and i have failed to hit it off with some of her female friends. she says im antisocial.

there are a few other reasons she has such as money, different wants. however we still have slept together a few times after all this and she says that even if we went our own ways that she would likely still want to meet up with me. i have offered to leave and let her think things through but she does not want me to leave and tells me to stay.

i feel harsh stress and have a hard time interacting with my children the same as before because i feel that at anytime she could have a freak out and it will be over.

am i worried about nothing and this will smooth out on its own or should i move on cause this is going nowhere.

thanks in advance for any advice.

[JaneDoe35]

Hi phantompeg - welcome

 

It is strange that she does not want you to leave. Conflicts with her wanting to separate.

 

I would book marriage counselling, give her the date & time. Say 'I'll be there'.

 

Someone else will bring it up anyway....but there may be someone else. I know you trust her but just be careful.

 

On the other hand this might be her cry for help saying that she is not happy.

 

Good luck.