gaudi Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Hey guys, thanks for all the advice I've had from you all so far, it really means a lot, and I thank you all from the bottom of my heart. However.......something just happened. My EX, whom I have been in NC with since December 13 has just sent me some pictures which I asked her to send me via e-mail. Pictures of a place I took her to for her birthday, a lot of them are just me and her but I really took some great ones of all the landmarks and stuff that I might not be able to get again. I never thought I would get them from her, she initially said she was having trouble forwarding them on, now I know that's true because she has sent them all individually, which must have taken a while. Do I respond ?? A quick e-mail of thanks or what ?? Or continue how I have been ?? NC
Vampire Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Tricky. Personally, were it me, I'd simply say "Thankyou" and nothing else. That way you don't come off as being rude, nor do you come across as sad or needy. Manners never hurt.
Author gaudi Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 Thanks mate, shouldn't contact her straight away though ?? What ya think ??
Vampire Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Well I doubt she'll read too much into the time it took you to say 'Thankyou'. Only people like us worry too much or read too much into it. It's a simple 'Thankyou'. would you naturally make people wait? Be yourself my friend and don't time your reaction based on what she may or indeed, may not think. Try not to go too far beyond a simple thanks or you may end up pissing yourself off.
Author gaudi Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 Oh no, Thank you is all it would be. Will have a good look through them all first though !!
sean1970 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 I know the temptation will be too great, but you should not be looking at them. Not a good prescription to pick at a healing wound. As for replying, are you prepared for a conversation from a 'thank you'?
Author gaudi Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 Sean you're probably right, but i'm honestly checking them out right now and they're making me smile. She looks fit on a lot of them like, but I ain't relapsing or anything mate. just wanted my pic's !!! Me in the nou-camp with the european cup and all that!!
LovelyDaze Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Sean you're probably right, but i'm honestly checking them out right now and they're making me smile. She looks fit on a lot of them like, but I ain't relapsing or anything mate. just wanted my pic's !!! Me in the nou-camp with the european cup and all that!! *If you just wanted the pics & she delivered: Say just "Thank you" *If you wanted the pics AND maybe the start of some dialogue with your ex: Say nothing and keep NC.
Heartbrokenandinlove Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 If it was me I would reply with a simple thank you....its just manners - again though I wouldnt act needy or anything...plain and simple!!
Author gaudi Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 BIG THANK YOU for all your responses, I will make my mind up whether I thank her or not. As I said this is "MY" NC, and not hers. i will decide what I share with her, although I will share EVERYTHING with you guys...........cheers. MUCH LOVE......GAUDI....X
EYECANDY000 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 a simple Thank you should do it. and thats it. although you have done NC thus far, I dont think its opening up dialogue. If she replies with a "how are you" then you should ignore.
LovelyDaze Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 BIG THANK YOU for all your responses, I will make my mind up whether I thank her or not. As I said this is "MY" NC, and not hers. i will decide what I share with her, although I will share EVERYTHING with you guys...........cheers. MUCH LOVE......GAUDI....X You know you have friends here on LS, gaudi! Whatever you do, don't hurt yourself another day longer from that girl.
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