appletree1901 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Hi I need some advise please... I was at my friends new years party and after plenty of drinks i rang her boyfriends best friend, who i have never met, but he is really hot!! Anyway we got talking and seemed to get on really well... We have been texting ever since n are planning a night out but he seems a bit hot n cold... like we were texting all last night and found we had a lot of things in common and like the same things, then i txt him sayin i really needed to go to bed cos of work in the morning and put "its been nice :0) x" n all i got back was "ok nite" What does this mean???? am i wasting my time? And should i text him again today or is it up to him now? Any advise welcome.... cheers
DustySaltus Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Hi I need some advise please... I was at my friends new years party and after plenty of drinks i rang her boyfriends best friend, who i have never met, but he is really hot!! Anyway we got talking and seemed to get on really well... We have been texting ever since n are planning a night out but he seems a bit hot n cold... like we were texting all last night and found we had a lot of things in common and like the same things, then i txt him sayin i really needed to go to bed cos of work in the morning and put "its been nice :0) x" n all i got back was "ok nite" What does this mean???? am i wasting my time? And should i text him again today or is it up to him now? Any advise welcome.... cheers Very simple: You meet someone and exchange information. Whatever way you want to get in contact with them initially is up to you. It should progress very quickly into a PHONE conversation where you get to know the person but not too well where you won't have anything to talk about on a first date. Then you set one up. That's it. Call him.
Yukikazi Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 morning and put "its been nice :0) x" n all i got back was "ok nite" What does this mean???? am i wasting my time? And should i text him again today or is it up to him now? Any advise welcome.... cheers It means ok night.. What do you think its supposed to mean.. are you that put out that he didn't sign off with "xoxox my sweet darling let me dream of you till morrow?" You essentially drunk txted him on NYE. You've never met so why should he act all lovey dovey to someone he's never met. You expect too much
sid3 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 If he is "really hot", then chances are he has LOTS of options and knows it. That fact that you are over thinking his 'ok nite' isn't good. Provided your looks are in the same catagory as his, then you may have a chance, as it's a fact most people date within their attractiveness levels. Most guys would be flattered by a girl persusing, but just like with women, things that come too easy aren't highly valued.
boogieboy Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 He didnt sign off with as much love as you did, it makes you want him more, and its working.
sid3 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Excellent point Boogie boy, I missed that even though it was so obvious. I was distracted by thinking how the simple goodbye allowed her neediness to come out, at least that's how the OP read IMO.
Author appletree1901 Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 I am not needy, ive been out of the dating scene for a while, through choice... and am a bit rusty hahaha... so do i play it cool from now on? PS what does OP and IMO mean lol
TheLoneSock Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Hi I need some advise please... I was at my friends new years party and after plenty of drinks i rang her boyfriends best friend, who i have never met, but he is really hot!! Anyway we got talking and seemed to get on really well... We have been texting ever since n are planning a night out but he seems a bit hot n cold... like we were texting all last night and found we had a lot of things in common and like the same things, then i txt him sayin i really needed to go to bed cos of work in the morning and put "its been nice :0) x" n all i got back was "ok nite" What does this mean???? am i wasting my time? And should i text him again today or is it up to him now? Any advise welcome.... cheers Dear god. Do girls really analyze stuff like this? If so, this is completely new to me, and a side I never knew.
TheLoneSock Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I am not needy, ive been out of the dating scene for a while, through choice... and am a bit rusty hahaha... so do i play it cool from now on? PS what does OP and IMO mean lol Lol? You don't play it anything, you just be yourself. Girls would find they get MUCH farther and have much better success with men if they dropped the games, playing/acting a certain way, and over analyzing. I think most guys (who are catches) STARVE for a girl that will just be real with them. I have only met/dated a couple girls that were real with me and easy going, and my god was it refreshing.
ordinary_girl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I think most guys (who are catches) STARVE for a girl that will just be real with them. I have only met/dated a couple girls that were real with me and easy going, and my god was it refreshing. so this is what 'being real' means! a guy recently described me as that, I knew it was a compliment but he didn't properly explain what he meant. same from women as well, a decent woman likes her man 'real'
confusedmuch Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 PS what does OP and IMO mean lol Sorry, can't help you with your actual question, but as far as I know OP means "original poster" and IMO means "in my opinion"
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