PWSX3 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 O.K. I know for most people it was a really rough 2009 & for some it feels like there life will never get better but I'm here to share that things can & will get better....... So for those that had a good New Years & are looking forward to 2010 maybe you can post & give hope to those that are still struggling..... For me it was a fantastic holiday. The g/f was supposes to go to Wy. to see her dad & step-mom but due to weather & getting sick she wasn't able to go so her & the boys were able to spend Christmas eve with our family, then Christmas day went to a movie which they had never done before on Christmas. New Years weekend started with staying up until midnight, then Saturday took the boys sledding for two hours, then yesterday we all went ice skating. It's been a LONG time since I've been on skates, g/f had never skated, & her youngest hadn't either. My son & her oldest had but it had been a long time.....We had such a good time, I told the boys it's pretty cool that a almost 50 year old man could keep up with a couple of teenagers.....:laugh::laugh: Dec. 31st is also my former W's bday so that was on my mind as well. I did send her an email saying; happy birthday & that my prayer is for 2010 to be the best year she has ever had. I don't wish anything bad for her, I really do believe she has a lot of issues to work thru just like I am, but the difference is I'm doing it & she isn't that I know of...... Well that is how mine went, yes there is life after divorce & I really believe even if you are single & don't have a g/f or b/f that it can be a good time.
FeelingLonely98 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 2010 is starting out great for me. I'm seeing a great girl. She really likes me a lot and me her as well. Met her son a few days ago. He likes me a lot, gave me a few hugs. She came over Christmas Day and the family loved her. One sister even told me that SHE was the type of girl we always thought you would end up with. Wasn't looking for anything serious like this - just sort of happened (right place, right girl, right time, ...) I believe the STBXW is still struggling in living in a back room of her Mom's apt. for over 4 months now with no hope of getting her own place anytime soon. poor thing ... she had such a good deal going with me. Well, at least she is happy with the 18 yr old bf. To be honest I don't even know if she is still with him. 2010 is so going to kick 2009's @ss - at least for me. Like PWSX3 said, it WILL get better. I just happened to get to a very happy place in less than 1/2 a year, other journeys may take longer be IT WILL GET BETTER - probably better than it ever was. Happy New Year all... PEACE!
dgiirl Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 Happy New Year PW!! May everyone start at least one new tradition for themselves this year!
trippi1432 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I'm hopeful that 2010 will be a better year for me. SA, CS and CO signed and filed...still wish I lived in another state so I didn't have to go through the "Bible Belt" divorce syndrome...when it's over, it's just over. Things I have to look forward to in 2010: * - Finding "me"...oh wait...I knew who I was to begin with.... * - 2 more classes and I am finished with my MBA. * - My daughter moved back home and started her CNA classes today (I'm just thankful that she finally found something she wants to do). * - Saving up for a trip to Italy for Christmas this year. * - Working on my career. Hoping for peace, tranquility and less stress for 2010...not just for me, but for everyone here on LS as well.
2.50 a gallon Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 New Year, New Decade A time to make a break with the old and move on in life, so you can be prepared for that new someone to light up your life. Remember just a small percentage of the broken hearted and those looking for new partners post on this forum. There are many more out there just like you lost and wanting to find someone special to share their lives with. Put on a happy face and be prepared for the unexpected when you least expect it. That new someone could be just around the corner or the check out line in front of you.
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