bee7989 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 So basically my title says it all. I've been with my boyfriend for a year & a half. We've been through a lottttt, a lot, a lot. But lately our relationship has cooled off because we're both growing up a lot. He's not the best, I mean.. he used to be, a year ago. But now he doesnt care as much and I always end up calling him, and yeah that's fine and all but is there any way to make him go back to the old him. I know the whole "play hard to get thing" but I hate the love games.. They seem so dumb, I just want him to be more like it was in the beginning, we still have our spark & we love being with eachother but the stupid arguments and the childish fights still come up sometimes (especially before my time of the month) I just feel deprived of attention from this guy that I am head over heels for.. I know he loves me a lot too, but he just doesnt have a really expressive way of showing it sometimes.. Feels like I'm wasting my time, Just wish it wasn't like this :/ (Ohhhhh By The Way, Because of the lack of attention, I've been talking to this really nice guy who gives me the attention that my boyfriend doesnt.. which is a change. Don't judge, I like the feeling of being complete and happy with everything going on around me.)
boogieboy Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 (edited) Well its your bf's fault for losing interest in you, but you shouldnt be staying with him if he isnt interested in you anymore. Your bf isnt in love with you anymore, or is tired of giving you the attention all the time. Bail out now, it will not get any better. And stop using people for attention, as much as its this suckers fault for falling for your trap, it still makes you a bad person. Edited January 4, 2010 by boogieboy
betamanlet Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Would you "love" him as much if you had less to complain about?
sid3 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 How would you feel if you bf is getting attention from a different girl? Or would that be ok. You could work on your relationship and gain the attention your looking for instead of lowering your moral standards. Guess it's easier to go the AW route.
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