babycakes62 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 I'm after this man in his early 60's. He's NOT married, he's been divorced for some time now. He's shown some interest but backed off recently when he percieved me as responded poorly to him flirting. It was a misunderstanding. How do I rectify this? I don't know much about guys in their 60's and how they operate. Any advise would be fantastic!
whichwayisup Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 How old are you? He's shown some interest but backed off recently when he percieved me as responded poorly to him flirting. If he has backed off, then let this go. HE isn't interested, if he was, he would have reacted more positively..He hasn't and you have to respect that. Back off, leave him alone and see what happens. If you stop flirting with him, go about your own business and life, maybe he'll notice and see you aren't the 'fun flirty, happy go lucky' woman you put yourself out there to be, he'll ask YOU out, give it a chance. Until then, let him approach you.
Author babycakes62 Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 (edited) I'm 28. I know it's a large age difference but I really do like him. I'm not the bar type and I really don't get out much. It's difficult to find someone who has similar interests. I did back off after that encounter but I just was wondering if there was any way to fix it. He flirted with me for months and finally made a move but he took me by surprise and reacted neutral which he took as bad obviously. I'm just terrible at this sort of thing. Is there any way to show I like him without being too upfront? I'm 99% sure he IS interested and I almost never say that, and the only reason I don't say 100% is because I wonder if he changed his mind about liking me because I didn't respond positively that one time. Edited January 5, 2010 by babycakes62
Joe Normal Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 This one is easy. Dress up in some sexy lingerie, put nothing but a full-length coat over the top, then call him and say you are having trouble with some DIY stuff at home and ask if he can help. Then when he arrives, take him up the the bedroom (saying it's a problem with the bedside table or something) and then unbutton your coat and tell him to have his wicked way with you. If you fail to pull, then I think we can safely say he is not interested P.S. if he has a heart attack, don't sue me!
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