USMCHokie Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 As more time has passed since the breakup and since we stopped talking, I've gone through all the different stages of sadness, anger, disappointment, etc. However, after almost 6 months since the break (~4 months NC), I've come to feel that I'd rather she hated me after we broke up...because there's no mystery, no doubts...I don't have to go on living my life wondering... Instead, I can only go on assuming that she has forgotten me and what we had...either through time alone or time with someone else...either way, the relationship didn't mean enough to her to even remember...at least with hate, she'll attach an emotion to me that she won't forget about...otherwise, I'll just be another guy that came and went, and I'll just be another insignificant fleeting memory... And I know that in the end what she thinks shouldn't matter...but it is what it is...
carhill Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Consider re-considering Forgetting (or being forgotten) is freedom.
McGrupp Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 f*uck her in the A*S*S if u did that____ she wont forget you!
bananaboat11 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 hmm.. my recent ex who I want back (but I won't break the NC first) hates me. I like your philosophy LOL i can't believe I'm admitting that. Yes, at least I know I'm still there LOL
DenverBachelor Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 I Think I'd Rather Be Hated Than Forgotten... I'm already three steps ahead of you, brother. To quote one of my favourite novels Moby Dick: "From Hell's heart, I stab at thee. For hate's sake, I spit my last breath at thee." You'd probably rather be loved than forgotten, but I see where you're going with this ...
Boundary Problem Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Us women always remember how it ended and that is how you will always be remembered. I'll never forget "Running Shoe Rob". One of my sister's exs. He was so frustrated with her he threw his shoes at her, and she dumped him permanently on the spot. Our whole family really liked him, but to this day decades later, we refer to him as "Running Shoe Rob" at the dinner table. Sorry. But true. Often the ending the relationship represents for us women everything that dissatisfied us in the relationship. Maybe men are more romantic. I know my gay ex-husband still tells people he "loves me and wants me back". I'm like WTF?
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