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Really though I want advice here! Is there anything I can do to at least make he like me as a friend?

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Really though I want advice here! Is there anything I can do to at least make he like me as a friend?

 

Yes, it's quite simple. Just go up to her and ask "can we be friends?" but try to make a face like this:

 

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Yes, it's quite simple. Just go up to her and ask "can we be friends?" but try to make a face like this:

 

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:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

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Wow...you're gonna get yourself fired if you keep pursuing her like this.

 

Do you not take a hint?

 

SHE'S NOT INTERESTED.

 

Leave her alone.

 

Get psychological help which I think you need if you persist with this.

 

I feel sorry for her, I really do. Anyone else think OP sounds like a stalker?

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Really though I want advice here! Is there anything I can do to at least make he like me as a friend?
You could always try getting down on one knee and proposing marriage. Some chicks play hard to get until they realize you're serious. You have to show her you're "all in" and committed to her.

 

 

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^^don't give him such advice, he'll actually do that.

Die Hard Established Member

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^^don't give him such advice, he'll actually do that.
:lmao:

 

i know i was being bad there

 

bad boy diehard bad

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I can't believe it, but I find myself interested in this thread just to see what idiotic thing the OP is gonna say next...:cool::lmao:

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Its just that lately Ive been more nervous and that, lost a few lbs because Im shy, and have a crush on her. thats why when I tell her how I feel it makes me feel better. Im nervous when I like a girl and want to ask her out out of fear of rejection. Same with the girl at work. I love her personality so much and that. Ive been edgy lately.

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Assuming this is a serious thread, honestly OP, work on yourself and try to find other girls.

You're coming across as a stalker.

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This should have been /thread back on post #8. Did I not call it? It's not a serious thread ella.

 

One goal! Long time no see buddy. Back to troll the boards again, eh?

 

Im not trolling I really do like the girl at work.

 

:rolleyes: This is how your threads go:

 

You're interested in someone, but you don't know what to say or how to ask her out...

 

People take time to give legitimate advice, which you ignore, say didn't work or just keep asking followup questions every few hours once the thread has gone farther down the page...

 

Eventually, the thread deteriorates into people saying you're clueless and/or a stalker...

 

You disappear for a while then the cycle repeats.

 

I realize I'm being a dick more than anything, and I could just ignore the threads, but for some reason they just annoy the hell out of me. If you're not a troll how come you never, ever contribute advice to anybody else?

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Its just that lately Ive been more nervous and that, lost a few lbs because Im shy, and have a crush on her. thats why when I tell her how I feel it makes me feel better. Im nervous when I like a girl and want to ask her out out of fear of rejection. Same with the girl at work. I love her personality so much and that. Ive been edgy lately.
Like others have said, assuming this is real:

 

I can sympathize with this feeling, but you cannot bug a girl because it makes YOU feel better. You see? You have to resist the urge to continue. It's not helping you with her and that better feeling you get is short-lived anyway. You have to find another way to make yourself feel better.

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Like others have said, assuming this is real:

 

I can sympathize with this feeling, but you cannot bug a girl because it makes YOU feel better. You see? You have to resist the urge to continue. It's not helping you with her and that better feeling you get is short-lived anyway. You have to find another way to make yourself feel better.

 

I understand. Just that I want her to understand how I feel about her.

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I understand. Just that I want her to understand how I feel about her.

 

 

and this is why you need psychological help. Please get it.

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She knows how you feel about her. That's how office gossip works. There is nothing else you can do. And also, eat something. She's not worth the stress.

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Is it ok to give her subtle compliments like shes cute, looks nice today? Is that considered harassment?

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It can be a fine line with compliments, so it would be much safer to avoid them altogether. After you're not thinking about her anymore, maybe then you can be friends. But not for awhile. Try not to think about her.

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dont feed the troll!!!!!

ella23 Established Member

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dont feed the troll!!!!!

oh no....you bumped the thread back to the first page :lmao:

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Ive been really sick past couple days have missed work. Gives me more time to think of what I'll say to her. Miss her!

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this sucks! I get denied again. Everytime I asked a hot chick out they have a boyfriend.

 

Maybe if you spent more time on WHO they are and not WHAT they are you'd find more success.

 

I'm just saying....

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this probably isn't a serious thread, Caliguy.

If it is, then one goal ought to stop stalking this girl.

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this probably isn't a serious thread, Caliguy.

 

Maybe so but it's something that all superficial men need to think about. I know we men are visual creatures but looks don't last forever. Eventually stuff starts sagging and getting wrinkly, then what's keeping you attracted to him/her?

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Maybe so but it's something that all superficial men need to think about. I know we men are visual creatures but looks don't last forever. Eventually stuff starts sagging and getting wrinkly, then what's keeping you attracted to him/her?

Yes...

I know what you mean.

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this probably isn't a serious thread, Caliguy.

If it is, then one goal ought to stop stalking this girl.

 

im not stalking. All Ive found was her twitter page.

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