Brokenhearted_girl Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Hacked into my bf's acct. Saw emails dating back July that he wanted to meet up with some girl. I'm hurt. The life that I knew was all a lie. I'm feeling bad and unstable. Help!
whichwayisup Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 I'm sorry you're hurting.. DUMP him. If he isn't going to give you the love, respect and life you deserve, then end it. Don't stick around in hopes he'll change his ways.
Author Brokenhearted_girl Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 I'm sorry you're hurting.. DUMP him. If he isn't going to give you the love, respect and life you deserve, then end it. Don't stick around in hopes he'll change his ways. Thank you. I know that's the most logical decision. Thank you!
Justtoodangtired Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 I'm so sorry you are going through this. Just take it from someone who has been there, this will never stop. I have been "working" on my relationship for 4 years after finding the visits to personal sites like craigslist, aff, etc. It has only progressed to him on facebook and Myspace constantly and I found an email where he did go meet someone and god really knows what happened. So, believe me it will only progress and he will NEVER change. If you can and are strong enough, LEAVE, GET RID OF HIM NOW! Don't wait and end up wasting more of YOUR life waiting for him to change or listening to him say it was nothing, etc. He will only lie. I wish you well. Good luck. You deserve someone who wants to be ONLY with you! They are out there. I know it because I had one....a long time ago! So, here's hoping 2010 will bring better things!
Author Brokenhearted_girl Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 I'm so sorry you are going through this. Just take it from someone who has been there, this will never stop. I have been "working" on my relationship for 4 years after finding the visits to personal sites like craigslist, aff, etc. It has only progressed to him on facebook and Myspace constantly and I found an email where he did go meet someone and god really knows what happened. So, believe me it will only progress and he will NEVER change. If you can and are strong enough, LEAVE, GET RID OF HIM NOW! Don't wait and end up wasting more of YOUR life waiting for him to change or listening to him say it was nothing, etc. He will only lie. I wish you well. Good luck. You deserve someone who wants to be ONLY with you! They are out there. I know it because I had one....a long time ago! So, here's hoping 2010 will bring better things! Thank you for your post! We just broke up yesterday and I know someday I'd be thanking myself for letting him go but it still hurts. Why do we put up with men like them? We deserve more than half-*ssed commitments. Just a few minutes ago I was feeling depressed and blaming myself for everything but I realized that his constant "online infidelities" and lack of commitment wrre the reasons why I was always stressed and had too little patience for him. I got mad at him easily and was always trying to find out who he was emailing. The kind of relationship we had truly wasn't a healthy one.
xbluudevilx Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 yeah its messed up that he did that to you but damn... kinda ****ed up u hacked into his account. lOl
imagine Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Cheating now is much more serious than if you were married. He will probably try to get you back if you dump him. He does not deserve the details. Tell him that you know he is cheating. Goodbye. Shortness has the best parting effect.
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