curiousnycgirl Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 If someone wants to breakup with you, do not fight to change their mind. Walk away with dignity. So this was posted in another thread, and I'm in a quandry trying to decide who walked away with dignity. You all know I feel he pushed me away. But I know he likes to play victim - so I'm sure he feels or is telling people that I ended it and what could he do? Although I know he's not really told anyone yet - but when he does..... On the other hand everyone who knows us will certainly know better. UGH I'm tormented, can you tell?
nobmagnet Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 i can tell darling, its probably time to sh*t or get off the pot?? I dont mean that in a bad way love trully. I recon its timeto find out. I actually dont beleive it was a personal mail but i can see why your in pain by it. maybe time to draw a line?? nobxx
Author curiousnycgirl Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 i can tell darling, its probably time to sh*t or get off the pot?? I dont mean that in a bad way love trully. I recon its timeto find out. I actually dont beleive it was a personal mail but i can see why your in pain by it. maybe time to draw a line?? nobxx What do you mean by this? sh*t or get off the pot usually means do something - what should I do? Draw what line? where?
GrayClouds Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 I'm in a quandry trying to decide who walked away with dignity. Why does it matter. Their is no score to keep. Dignity is who you are and what you do not who you were and what you did. If you want to be the person walking with dignity do by your behavior how. Stop by giving into thoughts of who won and who loss, who was right and who was wrong, who is happy and who is sad. Start by thinking instead of what you need and how to give it to yourself, that you are healing from a loss and will get stronger, and that a dignify person acts in ways that they are proud of. (more I's, less him's)
Author curiousnycgirl Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 Grayclouds as usual you are right. I just can't get my brain around any of it. I feel like I'm being punished for something terrible I've done in a previous life or something. So now I question everything, every word, every action, EVERYTHING.
GrayClouds Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 . So now I question everything, every word, every action, EVERYTHING. Which is a very luck place to be, congratulations you lucky bunny. This is called introspection and through this comes growth. Most people have to pay $200 dollars an hour for a couple of years to reach this point and you did it on your own. You must be a hell of a women. And after you question everything then you know what you want, what is right for you and how you can achieve it. Do not look on this as a punishment but a reward that is going to help you get the most out of the rest of your life.
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