JC90 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 This can actually be a VERY LONG story, but I'll write it short and you all can ask for more information if needed. After two months of talking with/flirting with a receptionist at my gym, I asked her out. Her interest seemed VERY HIGH with comments like, "You should be my personal trainer and personal train me," and while on the date, "I've never been to ocean city, we should go." Date seemed to go well. We were scheduled to work out together the next week, she blew me off and I found out the excuse was a lie. Talked to her best friend who told me to ask her out again and "give her another chance," I did that night, she said yes, but it snowed two feet (no lie) and a date wasn't possible. So a week later I asked her out again on a Wednesday, she accepted, called to make sure we were going out (now Saturday), no answer, she texts me saying she's at work, I text back "making sure we're still on for tonight," she cancels and the excuse is again a lie. I've simply stopped going out of my way to talk to her at the gym and am only acknowledging her when I can't get around it. I'm still friendly, maybe even a little flirty with a one liner or something, but no actual conversation and I have the mindset that she has screwed me over and I'm done with her. She also seemed to be ignoring me the day after she canceled out on me the second time in the gym (wtf?), and today (bout a week later) she seemed friendlier. I'll give more information, like what happened on the date, some dirt her best friend told me, ect... If more information is needed. I'd just like some clarification on what this girls deal is.
sagetalk Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 She must be very attractive if you've put up with that much crap and are still posting about her. She does not sound like a winner to me. If you're still big on going for her, I would suggest backing off and letting her make a move.
You'reasian Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 This can actually be a VERY LONG story, but I'll write it short and you all can ask for more information if needed. After two months of talking with/flirting with a receptionist at my gym, I asked her out. Her interest seemed VERY HIGH with comments like, "You should be my personal trainer and personal train me," and while on the date, "I've never been to ocean city, we should go." Date seemed to go well. We were scheduled to work out together the next week, she blew me off and I found out the excuse was a lie. Talked to her best friend who told me to ask her out again and "give her another chance," I did that night, she said yes, but it snowed two feet (no lie) and a date wasn't possible. So a week later I asked her out again on a Wednesday, she accepted, called to make sure we were going out (now Saturday), no answer, she texts me saying she's at work, I text back "making sure we're still on for tonight," she cancels and the excuse is again a lie. I've simply stopped going out of my way to talk to her at the gym and am only acknowledging her when I can't get around it. I'm still friendly, maybe even a little flirty with a one liner or something, but no actual conversation and I have the mindset that she has screwed me over and I'm done with her. She also seemed to be ignoring me the day after she canceled out on me the second time in the gym (wtf?), and today (bout a week later) she seemed friendlier. I'll give more information, like what happened on the date, some dirt her best friend told me, ect... If more information is needed. I'd just like some clarification on what this girls deal is. Sounds like she is just being flirtatious and friendly, since her actions show do not show any tangible interest. Appreciate her perkiness but go on about your own workout and fitness goals.
Author JC90 Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 (edited) She must be very attractive if you've put up with that much crap and are still posting about her. She does not sound like a winner to me. If you're still big on going for her, I would suggest backing off and letting her make a move. First girl I've been attracted to past physical looks, to be honest. Sounds like she is just being flirtatious and friendly' date=' since her actions show do not show any tangible interest. Appreciate her perkiness but go on about your own workout and fitness goals.[/quote'] I just wonder why the interest level would go from enthusiastically saying yes to a date offer before I could even finish asking all the way down to completely blowing me off and lying about it. Edited January 4, 2010 by JC90
boogieboy Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Shes not really interested in you, or she wouldnt falke out on you. Shes seeing someone so she doesnt need to care how she treats your dates. Leave her alone, shes playing games, and she will never be interested in you.
D-Lish Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 "I've never been to ocean city, we should go." Honestly, sometimes people say things they simply don't mean in order to draw you in. I suspect she thrives on attention and this was never about being particularly interested as much as it was about stroking her own ego.
cognac Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Every day there's a new thread on this, happened to me as well. Is there some kind of underground secret women's league of C*ck-teasers? I hear New York City women are #1 in the standings.
New_Life08 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 Why would you continue to flirt with someone who has no consideration for you? Maybe she has heard as much dirt on you as you have on her?
sid3 Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 You showed way too much interest, it turned her off. Work on your game so it doesn't happen the next time.
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