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Im just wondering if Im over reacting here.

 

Im currently trying to drop weight, Ive put up 2 stone rapidly over the past 12 months.

 

I was just asking my other half to help meausre parts of me for an online personal training thing. He saw the weight Id entered and turned around and said my weight couldnt be right as thats a mans average weight. I know my weight and Im not proud of it and he knows that and knows Ive had eating issues in the past.

 

Im really upset but hes still determined that I weighed myself incorrectly. I dont want to bring him to the scales and show him as I am ashamed of it.

 

Ive pretty much had a face on since, am I being a bitch? I just thought it was such an insensitive thing to say.

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Hm. You could take it either way really. He could be saying he thinks you are 'smaller' than that i.e. you don't look that weight, or he could just be an insensitive idiot. Just tell him to butt out of it, you know your weight and you are consciously making an effort to drop it, which is fantastic. My ex bf said those sort of things to me i.e. I don't think you're that dress size, (I was) and things, I used to just tell him to shut it, and if I wanted his opinion, I'd ask for it. Since when do men know those things anyway? :rolleyes:

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