teanoranges Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 I just got the opportunity, through a mutual friend, to ask for information/update on the ex. I turned it down, by saying I'd prefer not to talk about him or know what is going on his his life! Was very relaxed and calm. I am glad I didn't get info that I didn't want to know... its actually kind of scary. I hope the friend respects my wishes. haha. yay. 52 day or so NC!
drew86 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Congrats I need to start turning down information too... It doesn't help knowing
curiousnycgirl Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 wow and good for you. I'm dying for information. In fact when I read this post I went to his fb profile and saw that a woman had posted the following to his wall. `•.¸¸.☼¯`•..☆¨´`'*°☆. /▌ `•.¸☼ ♥ HAPPY NEW YEAR ♥ / \ (¸.•... much Health, Love and Success for all.... See More Love you friend and thanks for this beautiful year! ☻/ `•.¸¸.☼¯`•..☆¨´`'*°☆...☻/ `•.¸¸.☼¯`•..☆¨ Guess after 33 days NC I finally have confirmation that he cheated. OMG back in the crapper!
Jade 02 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 CONGRATS!!!!! Teanoranges 52 days,and your feeling like you do,I say keep on keeping on,even when the tough times sneak up on ya,take them down your a toughy HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!! stay strong Thats great:bunny:
twinklecat Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Congratz! ^^ It's kind of liberating to make that decision isn't it? I had a mutual friend say a smimilar thing to me, and told them I didn't want to know, none of my business...finally making decisions to protect myself! Well done on the NC too! I'm on about 3 weeks, not sure of how many days, have lost count! I hope you had a good new years too, and all the best for this year, it will be much better! ~twinkle x
Author teanoranges Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 Thanks everyone! I really do feel empowered! Its been a long time since I felt in control of my situation (not of him but of my heart and mind) and now I feel like I have that back. I feel like I'm moving on and its going to be ok.... better than ok.
gaudi Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 haha Good stuff, you go teanoranges, your post just made me check how many days I've been NC, 21 days so far for me, 3 weeks exactly, go me too !!!
LovelyDaze Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Thanks everyone! I really do feel empowered! Its been a long time since I felt in control of my situation (not of him but of my heart and mind) and now I feel like I have that back. I feel like I'm moving on and its going to be ok.... better than ok. If I had pom pons again I'd shake them and cheer for you! Almost 2 months!!!! You can do this! Don't stop and put down that phone every single time you have a tiny bit of feeling that you want to call or even check to see if your ex called. You know you have friends here, let's go from 52 days to 520 days to 5200 days......
Author teanoranges Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 Wow, this encouragement is really awesome! You all inspire me to stick to it and that really helps my out-of-control emotions stay in-control. Thanks!! I hope you all have the same kind of success. My self-doubt feels like its lifting. LS has really helped with all the advice and knowledge everyone is going through!
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