canadaman111 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 My wife has moved out this past weekend. We have agreed we are still going to help each other out with our 2 boys. Tomorrow they go back to school and part of the deal is that I am going to take them to her house each morning before I go to work and then she will take them to school. So I will see her every morning before work. I want our relationship to get batter and get our family back together. I do feel that we need the NC at this point. I guess i just have to keep our contact short and sweet and hope for the best. It is so hard right now as the kids want to do things as a family all the time and it is hard to disappoint them all the time.
tigereyes1428 Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 i sympathise with you. how was your first morning?
nobmagnet Posted January 5, 2010 Posted January 5, 2010 hard but totally doable.(no such word iknow) ditant as you can, small talk only. always smile if your babies see you smile they will feel safe to talk and open up. it will get better. nob x
Author canadaman111 Posted January 5, 2010 Author Posted January 5, 2010 i sympathise with you. how was your first morning? I took it pretty hard. When I dropped them off I found myself not wanting to leave. I just wanted to hold her. It seems everytime I see her I love her more. I did leave any went to work fighting back tears. After a few hours of work I did feel much better and the rest of the day went pretty good. I expect each day will be the same horrible routine for a while.
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