Battered101 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 hey guys and girls new to posting here ok my girlfriend is pretty as anything.. and i know other guys see that aswell.... My girlfriend at the moment is off camping with her family at a caravan park... i was up there today and yesterday... and she told me some people that she hooked up with and some stories and ****... and now that made me quiet uncomfortable about her staying up there and hanging out with other people and on new years eve we went out in town to see the fireworks and she ran into someone she knew.. now my girlfriend is 16.. im 18... and this guy she ran into was 21(old friend of hers) now he is texting her every so often saying hey sexy chick.. and saying how lucky i am to have such a beautiful girl.... and what not.. im scared she may get sucked into some bull**** with him To sum it all up i always feel that when im away from her.. she may go off and do something with someone else.. and im scared of that.. she is the only girl ive ever loved as much as i do now.. and when we are apart i feel very funny in the stomach and just think what if she drinks and she accidently does something stupid or something... ive talked with her plenty of times about this problem she says to trust her and not to be insecure she tells me she loves me all the time.... and that she hates liars and such.... so thats what ive been trying to work on... i need some advice to stop these thoughts they ruin my day and happyness they always bring me down help please
Yukikazi Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 1... stop talking about it with your gf.. that just brings it up in her mind over and over again. Second.. make sure you are making her happy and she has a good time with you. C. is this other douche even local enough to be an issue? p.s. giving her a g spot orgasm never hurts
Author Battered101 Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 yes he is local but i can deal with him if i have to.. im sure she has a good time. and i just dunno guys.. some more advice its killing me inside thats all
ducknrun Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 p.s. giving her a g spot orgasm never hurts I think in most states that would cause problems because of the age difference. To stay on point Why do you feel insecure... she had to have done something to make you feel this way... other than talking to this guy. I do think that the level of conversation is pushing a boundary. I also don't think it’s a bad think to express your feeling of insecurities to her. That being open and honest, but she might blow you off because she thinks you should trust her. I would leave it at that if that works for you or handle it how you would want to. Bottom line if you are having a good time with each other and it doesn't have to be all the time there isn’t much to worry about. This is a relationship after all and nothing is perfect. You will have arguments and fights, but if both are treating each other well and are happy everything will be fine.
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