duskandsummer Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Is there a way to capture his interest again.. for example..lets say you hook up with a guy for 3 years then one day he stops calling and texting and eventually deletes your number.. its obvious he has lost interest..but is there anyway to get his interest back and if so how would you go about doing that. How can you make that guy make him notice you again?!?
Yukikazi Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Sounds like an FWB that trailed off.. you still have feelings for this person I guess otherwise you wouldn't care if he vanished.. We need more information as to why he may have ceased contact and what the situation has been recently
Author duskandsummer Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 I don't wanna go into it..but about 3 years and a half ago he found my on myspace and we started talking..*we grew up together as kids his family knows my family but we lost touch..after we moved and then we came back* it started off as just catching up and then we started talking more on the physical side..we only messed around..we never hooked up fully..but he would always text and call. About 2 years after we started talking he started dating this girl, but still would call me and text me everyday..what we had never changed until exactly a year ago..tomorrow. I texted and he gave me short answer..months went by I texted again and he asks me who it is..then he leaves for college I wish him good luck and he says that it means a lot to him. I texted him in october and again he says who is this?..and I haven't texted ever sense but I still care about him and miss him like crazy. Even when he had a girlfriend it wasn't until a year into their relationship when things started getting weird, he was no longer looking for me. Then all this started where he lost interest. I just want to know how I can get him to notice me again..I miss him. I just want to talk even if it doesn't lead to anything. But I really don't think I could handle texting and him asking who it is again.
Yukikazi Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 So the only contact you've had with this guy for years now is via txt? and when you hooked up it wasn't a fuill hookup just fooling around? Why are you so fixated on this guy?
Author duskandsummer Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 well we started talking at 17. We only text. We call from time to time. But mostly just text. I have been trying to figure that out for such a long time why I feel so strongly for him and not for any other guy. He gave me absolutely nothing to fall for and yet here I am. Wanting him to notice me again. I feel stupid.
Yukikazi Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 well we started talking at 17. We only text. We call from time to time. But mostly just text. I have been trying to figure that out for such a long time why I feel so strongly for him and not for any other guy. He gave me absolutely nothing to fall for and yet here I am. Wanting him to notice me again. I feel stupid. Do you people even live near each other? Is he dating anyone currently? He seems to not want anything to do with you as he dosen't have you saved in his phone.. I would highly suggest you do what you need to do to get over this guy.
Author duskandsummer Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 I guess you are right I should get over this guy, and I have been on the rode to that. I just have the sudden urge to just talk to him, to have him notice me and call me. I want him to see that im changing and stuff but whatever I don't think it will ever happen.
LostInLA Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 As cliche as it sounds, there are plenty of fish in the sea and wouldn't you want to capture the heart of someone who is genuinely into you?
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 I just want to know how I can get him to notice me again..I miss him. I just want to talk even if it doesn't lead to anything. But I really don't think I could handle texting and him asking who it is again. Dude. He's just not that into you. You shouldn't have to "remind" a guy who you are. Any guy that's worth your time is going to be chasing YOU, not the other way around (with him asking "who is this"). That's just craziness. Have some respect for yourself - this guy is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. I say cut him loose. His loss.
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