doesheornot Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and everything was going fine, he just went to visit friends in another city for a week and he has only called me once on new years eve and that was because i asked him to before he left, he comes back tomorrow so i dont think hes calling tonight. Should i be upset? He usually doesnt call often when hes out of town but usually more then once. I should mention that the friends hes visiting dont seem to like me very much and i'm getting a little worried.
deux ex machina Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and everything was going fine, he just went to visit friends in another city for a week and he has only called me once on new years eve and that was because i asked him to before he left, he comes back tomorrow so i dont think hes calling tonight. Should i be upset? He usually doesnt call often when hes out of town but usually more then once. He doesn't want you to call him? Is he busy with something? I should mention that the friends hes visiting dont seem to like me very much and i'm getting a little worried. If he is that easily influenced, then I wouldn't imagine he'd be the right one for you. But I really think that is a pretty big "if" - because you say they seem not to like you very much - why do you think that? I get the feeling there's something going on you are uneasy about, and for some reason he seems to be pulling all the strings - to the point that you, his gf of 4 years, feels that she cannot pick up the phone. On the other hand he could simply be very busy. If he told you he would be, then you can relax.
boogieboy Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Give him his vacation, let him miss you. If he comes back and starts acting different, THEN you should worry. Dont be so dependent, go be with your friends, have fun.
Author doesheornot Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 He has no problem with me calling him, he just doesnt take the time to call me. It wasnt bothering me until I was hanging out with my friends and they started worring about it, and then i started worring about, but your right i should let him enjoy his vacation
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