goldfish33 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 I have know a girl for about 2 years. During that time we both had alot of chemistry but were in relationships. The relationship we where in both ended/working on salvaging. During this time we went out to dinner both of us not knowing if it was a friend thing or what. We talked on the phone and decided that it wasn't the best time. I told her if we where ever both single I would like to date her and pursue something - she agreed. Some time went by and we were both single. She was done with her relationship but it stressed her alot (lost weight - stressful long term relationship breakup) she has said she is completely done with him. We went on a road trip (400ish miles) and had a great time. We had another date and I told her I didn't want to rush her into something. The next date we ended up in my bed just holding each other and kissed good night. A few more dates went by but always about a week or so apart. She is always distant with how some we see each other. We text a decent amount during the week and talk on the phone some. During Christmas I texted her merry christmas but she didn't reply for a few days. I decided it was time for me to give up and wished her a happy new year. Then she texts a bunch and askes me to call her - we talked for a while and always have great coverstations. She doesn't really flirt but when the date is over always holds her face out for me to kiss her. She is always distant in seeing me - I dont get it? I said I didn't want to rush her into something so is she just taking her time or what? She mentions doing thing in the future - trips and what not. Why is she so slow in seeing me? Im afraid to ask her what is up? I really really like her alot but have know clear what or how she feels. Seems like she holds back.
Mary3 Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 She is grieving the loss of her relationship. There is only one way to go through that and thats to go through the grief... Give her time. Every kiss , every cuddle is going to take an adjustment if she is still getting over him...
knaveman Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 copied from cleanjokes.com: A man was walking along a Florida beach and stumbled across an old lamp. He picked it up and rubbed it, and out popped a genie. The genie said, "OK, You released me from the lamp. This is the fourth time this month, and I'm getting a little sick of these wishes so you can forget about three... You only get one wish!" The man sat, and thought about it for a while and said, "I've always wanted to go to Hawaii, but I'm scared to fly, and I get very seasick. Could you build me a bridge to Hawaii so I can drive over there to visit?" The genie laughed and said, "That's impossible!!! Think of the logistics of that! How would the supports ever reach the bottom of the Pacific? Think of how much concrete -- how much steel!! No, think of another wish." The man said, "OK, I'll try to think of a really good wish." Finally, he said, "I've been married and divorced four times. My wives always said that I don't care and that I'm insensitive. So, I wish that I could understand women, know how they feel inside, and what they're thinking when they give me the silent treatment. Know why they're crying, know what they really want when they say "nothing,” know how to make them truly happy." The genie said, "Do you want that bridge to be two lanes or four?"
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