ditched Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Weeks and weeks of wishing and wondering and hoping that I’d get a call from the ex during the holidays. and i get pocket dialed on New Years day. Ive been NC for almost six months, barring one run-in a few months back, which was awful. I was at the hockey game and during intermission i look at my phone and see what i've been waiting to see for months. 1 Missed Call, her phone number, and 1 New Voicemail. I was ecstatic. i found the closest corner to block out the sounds of all the passerbys and dialed my voicemail. Sure enough, it was a minute of noise from the inside of a purse or pocket or something, and that's it. So against my better judgement, i text her. "a new years day pocket dial?? you're killin me!" to which she has yet to even respond. fml.
Dream Brother Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 All I can say is OUCH really, I can imagine how that feels to see that missed call and then hear pocket stuff. I wouldn't have sent the text you sent but nothing much to lose at this stage. Hey look on the bright side, she didn't erase your number!!! !!!!!
Silent-Night Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 You have obviously made alot of progress over the past six months mate. You were enjoying a hockey game. Unfortunately pocket dialling is rude if it was intentional, but maybe it was an accident. You might never know so don't read too much into it. The positives that came out of the are that YOU WERE ENJOYING A HOCKEY GAME and she still has your number. Do not beat yourself over uncertain things. Keep your chin up and drive on.
Author ditched Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 Yeah, when I wrote “yr killin me!!!”, it wasn’t supposed to be a dramatic “you’re KILLING me!!!” kinda thing. Its just a funny thing I always say when I’m amusingly perterbed. like "hey dude, can i borrow a dime?" to which i reply "Yr killin me!" Tho, now that you said that, I hope she took it that way…but anyhoo…. I got another phantom call the next day around noon. After which I sent another text just letting her know that it was still happening. No response. Then yesterday I got two more calls that I just ignored. This morning I got a myspace message explaining that she’s sorry and her phone is acting weird and she’s got to get a new one. And if I ever want to chat, we are still friends. And to not be sad because it’s a new year. oh well, it was a fun few days imagining that it was a strange attempt to reconnect...
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