drew86 Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Here's some background if interested: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t213400/ The text: "So... you slept with someone else too and you're calling me disgusting?" My first reaction was WTF who do you get your information from and why would they make that up? I don't want to reply but that is really not cool... She is the kind of person that will start telling anyone who will listen that that is what happened. I don't want my reputation to be attacked like that. Also, when I found out what she was doing I sent her an angry text which ended with "F--- you. You disgust me. Don't ever contact me again." That's why she used that word.
DenverBachelor Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Also, when I found out what she was doing I sent her an angry text which ended with "F--- you. You disgust me. Don't ever contact me again." That's why she used that word. Volatile emotions at play. Been there, done that. Under no circumstances should you contact her for .... at least three months. Don't play this game with yourself and her -- you're better than that. You need to suck up the pain and move on. Whether she cheated on you, lied, blew up your car, etc. -- just get away from this situation completely. Don't defend yourself with her. There isn't a reason to do so. You'll lose in the end. It is a no-win scenario unless you don't bother to play the game. This will just get uglier before it gets better -- trust me on this, I speak from experience. You need to delete the text and not respond. Do not respond to any of her texts, calls, e-mails, letters, etc. You and Jimmy Hoffa will have a lot in common in her world view.
Author drew86 Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 Well I am now back at school, 4 hours away from her, and I plan to not answer anymore texts. Thank you for the advice, I needed that reinforcement Hello 2010!
sedgwick Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 This is why breaking NC is never a good thing!! Definitely implement it again and do your very best to stick with it!
Author drew86 Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 What's would you consider to be the ideal way to start NC? Like, what would be the last thing you say?
twinklecat Posted January 3, 2010 Posted January 3, 2010 Don't say anything, that's what I have done. As so many recommend here, do NC and stick at it, it helps you immensely!
Author drew86 Posted January 3, 2010 Author Posted January 3, 2010 Damn... I said: "Please just let me heal, I respected your choice to break up. I just want to stop hurting. Don't text me anymore" Way to nice considering what she did to me, I regret sending anything at all
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