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Green , you know there are men who are ONLY attracted to large women , right ?

 

One mans wife lost a ton of weight and he no longer wanted to have sex with her....believe that :)

 

Yeah I know there are men who only like fat women and vice versa I just don't understand why.

 

The mans wife probably had alot of hanging skin.

 

 

My experience with fat people...

 

When my last ex picked me up for our first date.. I thought.. OMG I never realized how big he was... I had never ever been attracted to big people... we went on our date.. it was nice.. he was a real gentleman.. smelling good.. he was drop-dead gorgeous (face)... he was tall 6'2 so he carried his weight pretty good.. although he had a huge belly.

 

I fell head over heels in love with this guy to my surprise.. his weight didn't mean anything.. I didn't see it.. I was more concerned about his health than his weight.. he was a big eater.. he loved restaurants, junk food and sweets...

 

He tried to lose weight.. but his schedule and his work prevented him in some way, to diet.. (he was a workholic, eating at all times, mostly junk food)...

 

Since him... weight is not as big an issue as it used to be... I know I can love a person regardless of his weight.. before him.. I didn't even pay attention to overweight people..

 

I can't stand tall, skinny men... I prefer them a little chubby than skinny.

 

Well thats very loving of you, but its sounds like for a good part of your life you didn't consider it posible to fall for some one of that size.

 

Who cares? Some like blondes, some like Asians, some like heavyweights. Historically, it wasn't that long ago that larger size was considered the general standard of attraction. The general definition of beauty swings back and forth constantly. Look at the waifs on the runways nowadays - even with her curves, do you think Marilyn Monroe would've stood a chance with a modeling agency? What about Bettie Page? She was 128lbs - practically an elephant by today's model standards!

 

The generally accepted definition of beauty changes so drastically (even from the Cindy Crawford's of the 80's to the Kate Moss' of today) that you really do just have to go with what turns your own crank and forget about the rest of the world.

 

whats your personal conception of beauty, do you find 300lb plus people attractive if its all in the stomach and face

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Yeah I know there are men who only like fat women and vice versa I just don't understand why.

 

The mans wife probably had alot of hanging skin

 

You TOTALLY miss the point ! Its what they like...what they enjoy...what they love to cuddle with...

 

Have you ever seen a big big guy with a tiny hot chick ? You wonder what she sees in him....but look at their faces...they look happy !

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You TOTALLY miss the point ! Its what they like...what they enjoy...what they love to cuddle with...

 

Have you ever seen a big big guy with a tiny hot chick ? You wonder what she sees in him....but look at their faces...they look happy !

 

First off I never denied that people choose to enter into relationships with obese people all I said was I would have no initial attraction to some one like that on a physical level.

 

Relationships are more then physical and its not hard for me to understand to people loving eachother no matter what they look like I just don't undstand why people choose to start dating some one that is fat.

 

And no they do not always look happy in fact to me an attractive couple usualy seems happier from a glance.

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First off I never denied that people choose to enter into relationships with obese people all I said was I would have no initial attraction to some one like that on a physical level.

 

Relationships are more then physical and its not hard for me to understand to people loving eachother no matter what they look like I just don't undstand why people choose to start dating some one that is fat.

 

And no they do not always look happy in fact to me an attractive couple usualy seems happier from a glance.

 

The ODD couple have a secret you will never know....

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I prefer a guy who is chubby to a guy who is "ripped" or one who is super skinny. Actually my preference is between 25-30 years of age, 5'8-5'11 in height, and with some meat on his bones. To me that's pretty much perfection right there. :)

 

Now would I date a guy who was obscenely obese? No, because although I hate the gym, I would hate even more to fall in love with someone who has a high risk of dying before their time due to their weight issues.

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I DID NOT GIVE YOU PERMISSION TO POST THAT!!

 

anyway all jokes aside... What kind of answer are you really looking for ?

This is like asking a gay guy how can he date guys...HELLO ...BECAUSE HE WANTS TOO!! DOH!

 

No its not because this thread aplies to gay guys would date a big fat guy, I actualy saw that yesterday an in shape muscular gay guy dating a big fat out of shape guy.

 

I guess there is no answer I just don't get it. This is pointles because I guess everyone just feels the way they do about things, I feel like fat people are unatractive other people think they are oh well.

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I prefer a guy who is chubby to a guy who is "ripped" or one who is super skinny. Actually my preference is between 25-30 years of age, 5'8-5'11 in height, and with some meat on his bones. To me that's pretty much perfection right there. :)

 

Now would I date a guy who was obscenely obese? No, because although I hate the gym, I would hate even more to fall in love with someone who has a high risk of dying before their time due to their weight issues.

 

I think its just an attraction thing though, if you met a guy who was going to die soon and you thought he was hot I bet you would date him.

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I think its just an attraction thing though, if you met a guy who was going to die soon and you thought he was hot I bet you would date him.

 

Nah, I'm not big on just dating a guy to collect his insurance money. :) I like my men to stick around for awhile.

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No its not because this thread aplies to gay guys would date a big fat guy, I actualy saw that yesterday an in shape muscular gay guy dating a big fat out of shape guy.

 

I guess there is no answer I just don't get it. This is pointles because I guess everyone just feels the way they do about things, I feel like fat people are unatractive other people think they are oh well.

 

See you know the answer ... Just because you aren't attracted to them that doesn't mean that is what everyone should not be attracted to... your way is not the right way.

 

I have many friends who would not date outside of our race...does that mean I should find anybody outside of my race utterly repulsive ...of course not because what I like would always be different from everyone else...Let it be race,age ,sex ,weight....it does not matter

 

So you should stop looking for an answer you already know the answer to... you asking over and over would not equal to you getting the answer you want...K

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There is another important consideration that no one has yet mentioned. Dating a fat person would most likely cost more because you would be constantly having to be buy them pies.

Obvious troll is obvious.

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