Gumy Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Hello, I am new here. I have been browsing the forums for a little bit and I really enjoy some of the advice people give on this board. Also, i'd like wish everyone a happy new year and all the best for 2010. Here is my break up story. I dated a girl for just over a year and we had a solid relationship and never really got into any intense fights or anything like that. She's perfect in my eyes and we got along great. Were both 24 years old and I really thought that she was the one I was going to marry and she thought so as well. I just had never been so close to a girl before and I got a little scared I guess and I ended up breaking up with her. I know that is a really bad excuse, however, I didn't have a good childhood as my parents had split up, remarried other people and split up again when I was young. I never thought I would get married because that really scarred me. We have been broken up for about 2 months now and I am going crazy without her, I spent Christmas and New Years alone because I feel sick to my stomach for what I did to her. I need her back, I have no idea what to do. I am looking for some advice if anyone can help. I tried to keep my story as short as possible but if I am missing anything please let me know. Thank you.
Howitzer Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Have you tried getting back together? Seems like you owe her an apology, if you ended the relationship prematurely. If you have tried, and she's rejected you, there's not much you can do. It's really up to you to judge whether you want to continue waiting for her, or just move on. I'd be wary of waiting longer though, if she has already said no. You should probably also think about the reasons that you broke up with her, and why you want to get back together. Do you miss her, or do you miss having someone with you? Why did you break up in the first place?
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