CarrieT Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 As a woman, what do get most out of this? why do you love it so much? be honest? Seriously? How can one not love immense amounts of physical pleasure? Some people seriously ARE wired differently (for whatever reasons) and without imposing morals and morays on every person, some of us just enjoy things physically different. I am a sensualist; I receive abject physical pleasure from a really good plate of a cheese and a bottle of Sauterne. For someone else, that is merely food or sustenance. My sexuality is the same; I don't want the same block of Cheddar cheese my whole life -- I want variety. I want to experience new things and if that is done sexually, than that is just one more additional physical sensation which makes me happy.
amymarieca Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 You both have done a excellent job illustrating that swingers are secure with themselves and their sexuality. While you may be offended that I disapprove, I honestly find your lifestyle very offensive, so we are even. You should understand, that sleeping with "other" people while in a relationship is a major no for lots of people. By the way, I don't care to experience the swinging lifestyle, but I do have enough general knowledge of what it is. It's not of interest to me. There's really no reason for debate here, so I'm not going to argue over it. It's your lifestyle, and there is absolutely no way to reason with you. I honestly think it would be best for OP not to pursue a relationship with this girl though. I really don't get how you could possibly say that someone's lifestyle is offensive to you, when it affects your life in absolutely no way. Sleeping with other people is a major no to a lot of people, but to many it is a huge turn on. Some people like that. Get over it! You are trying to "close off" this argument by indirectly saying we are full of nonsense, when really, your judgmental comments have no real justification. I guess really, there is no reasoning with you, because you are looking at this completely one-sided. Good luck with that one.
amymarieca Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 As a woman, what do get most out of this? why do you love it so much? be honest? The only reason you are asking me this is because you are one of those people that don't believe a woman can be sexual and enjoy having a wild side. Tell me, why would you, as a guy, get enjoyment out of it? I am pretty sure our answers would be the same.
Author alphamale Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 well i haven't heard from Leslie the Swinger in a few days and i'm not gonna contact her. she'll have to call me. i've got a couple other chicks on teh backburner
pyroguy Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 [code][/code]The only reason you are asking me this is because you are one of those people that don't believe a woman can be sexual and enjoy having a wild side. Tell me, why would you, as a guy, get enjoyment out of it? I am pretty sure our answers would be the same. Completely wrong. I absolutely do believe women can be sexual just for the sake of being sexual. I also mentioned I researched the swing lifestyle and continue to do so. I'm just curious if it's just variety or is it to get better than their current partner? They will never admit it, but fromn what I see, it eventually turns out that way, at least for women. Women win in this game. And, I just wonder if even swingers are as honest as they profess to be.
pyroguy Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 Oh, and let me just add that I think it's fine if you have two consenting adults. I also believe that variety and different experiences, like threesomes can be a motive too. I didn't want to give the impression that the scenario I mentioned in the post above is the only truth-but I do believe it's an unfortunate side-effect.
dazzle22 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 shes not a cougar, shes my age or a bit younger Oh, I guess her "worldly wild ways" made me think she was older. So she's a puma... What is the male equivalent of a cougar?...Normal...
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