lecasanova Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 1) Good Looks Okay this is fairly obvious, good looks are a must for the perfect girl. Every guy, or rather human being, loves to look at a pretty face, whether it's enhanced with make-up or not, it's down to personal preference, but if using make-ups help you look better, then by all means start learning! Sure, the world may say "beauty is only skin deep" and "it's the personality that matters" but let's face it, that's only comfort sayings and excuses. 2) Good Personality I know, good looks kind of contradict good personality, but for the perfect girl, she should have a good personality too. So what exactly is a good personality? Well, a few of the qualities i find that are most attractive of a girl are : humbleness, demure, humor-filled, good talker and a good listener. 3) Good Dress Sense Yup, good dress sense makes the list too. Lose the baggy clothes, men love to see the curves of a women body, and if you could dress up to show that off, why not right? Which also brings me to my next point, to be able to show off your curves, you also need a good body. 4) Good Body Yes, every anorexic's greatest enemy. Contrary to what most girls believe, it is not being skinny that would make you sexy, in fact, it's having a mix of toned muscles and slimness. Skinniness should not even classify as being beautiful, it can in fact be even classified as scary. So don't starve yourself, in fact, exercise more and eat right. 5) Some Sexy Talent This can come in the form of singing, playing the piano, dancing ballet or anything else that makes a girl look sexy. Personally, i think a girl looks twice as beautiful when she can sing. So don't put off dancing lessons or piano lessons, the piano scores aren't the only scores you'll be getting, if you get what i mean. -grins. 6) Get A Healthy Tan edit: + No Tan Lines Face it, no one (or at least few men) have a fetish for albinos (no offence to anyone reading this), what makes men drool, besides a sexy body, is a healthy tan covering that sexy body. It doesn't matter if it's a spray on tan or a real tan, they're still equally attractive. So if you've been hiding under shelter all your life avoiding the sun, it's about time you go get a tan! Go take up a sport, go to the beach or anything that puts you under the sun! 7) Don't Be Domineering I cannot emphasize the importance of this last point. Men, are naturally (no offence to any alpha females here), the dominant sex, while women are the fairer sex. So, for most men, at least, it would be a direct attack at their ego and pride if a women tries to dominate their encounters. Thus, if you're the kind of women who rules over men like they're your little puppies, perhaps you could tone down a bit and you'll soon see more men daring to approach you. So, these are the few qualities and characteristics that i believe a perfect girl should possess. Have anything to add guys? Or anything to defend girls? Feel free to comment below and we'll discuss about it! -grins.
Pizzaman81 Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 1) Good Looks Okay this is fairly obvious, good looks are a must for the perfect girl. Every guy, or rather human being, loves to look at a pretty face, whether it's enhanced with make-up or not, it's down to personal preference, but if using make-ups help you look better, then by all means start learning! Sure, the world may say "beauty is only skin deep" and "it's the personality that matters" but let's face it, that's only comfort sayings and excuses. 2) Good Personality I know, good looks kind of contradict good personality, but for the perfect girl, she should have a good personality too. So what exactly is a good personality? Well, a few of the qualities i find that are most attractive of a girl are : humbleness, demure, humor-filled, good talker and a good listener. 3) Good Dress Sense Yup, good dress sense makes the list too. Lose the baggy clothes, men love to see the curves of a women body, and if you could dress up to show that off, why not right? Which also brings me to my next point, to be able to show off your curves, you also need a good body. 4) Good Body Yes, every anorexic's greatest enemy. Contrary to what most girls believe, it is not being skinny that would make you sexy, in fact, it's having a mix of toned muscles and slimness. Skinniness should not even classify as being beautiful, it can in fact be even classified as scary. So don't starve yourself, in fact, exercise more and eat right. 5) Some Sexy Talent This can come in the form of singing, playing the piano, dancing ballet or anything else that makes a girl look sexy. Personally, i think a girl looks twice as beautiful when she can sing. So don't put off dancing lessons or piano lessons, the piano scores aren't the only scores you'll be getting, if you get what i mean. -grins. 6) Get A Healthy Tan edit: + No Tan Lines Face it, no one (or at least few men) have a fetish for albinos (no offence to anyone reading this), what makes men drool, besides a sexy body, is a healthy tan covering that sexy body. It doesn't matter if it's a spray on tan or a real tan, they're still equally attractive. So if you've been hiding under shelter all your life avoiding the sun, it's about time you go get a tan! Go take up a sport, go to the beach or anything that puts you under the sun! 7) Don't Be Domineering I cannot emphasize the importance of this last point. Men, are naturally (no offence to any alpha females here), the dominant sex, while women are the fairer sex. So, for most men, at least, it would be a direct attack at their ego and pride if a women tries to dominate their encounters. Thus, if you're the kind of women who rules over men like they're your little puppies, perhaps you could tone down a bit and you'll soon see more men daring to approach you. So, these are the few qualities and characteristics that i believe a perfect girl should possess. Have anything to add guys? Or anything to defend girls? Feel free to comment below and we'll discuss about it! -grins. I agree with 1, 2, 3, 4. I can't stand a woman who has no sense of dressing herself and dressing like a slob to certain places. I mean how you carry yourself in public directly influences your chance of success in life... we live in a class based society, whether you think it or not.
boogieboy Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Disagree with 5. Could care less about talent that I cant use. Cooking, sexual talents, handiwoman, those are better talents. AND if a woman is naturally pale, no big deal. I could care less about unnatural tans.
Jersey Shortie Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 If you are waiting for the perfect girl, you are going to miss out on so many good things. You're list sounds plastic and devoid of anything real, true, passionate or even human. But hey, good luck with that.
Yukikazi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 The irony of the tan being healthy is just that.. the process of darkening is your bodies way of defending itself against harmful rays..
Kamille Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 :lmao: Good looks contradicts good personality? Darn it, we have to chose or force ourselves to develop both? Gosh darn. I would rather be myself than try to mold myself to fit some random list of how to be perfect. I am not perfect and do not expect my partner to be perfect. I am who I am and I want my partners to love me for me, not because I've somehow molded myself into some random plastic ideal.
boogieboy Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 If you are waiting for the perfect girl, you are going to miss out on so many good things. You're list sounds plastic and devoid of anything real, true, passionate or even human. But hey, good luck with that. Hey LeCasanova I have an addition to the list.... 8.) Beware of man haters and avoid at all costs.
Goodin Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 There is no perfect woman. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder. We should all hope we find someone in our lifes that thinks we are perfect. I would add that a woman that is funny, smiles alot, is out going and treats people with respect. I disagree completely with the part about a tan. I prefer a woman to be natural and if she is naturally pale then that's fine with me.
disgracian Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 This is honestly the biggest load of vacuous rubbish I've read for weeks. So I'm going to make a list of my own: the douchiest comments made in the original list: Sure, the world may say "beauty is only skin deep" and "it's the personality that matters" but let's face it, that's only comfort sayings and excuses.I know, good looks kind of contradict good personalitymen love to see the curves of a women body, and if you could dress up to show that off, why not right?So don't put off dancing lessons or piano lessons, the piano scores aren't the only scores you'll be getting, if you get what i mean. -grins.what makes men drool, besides a sexy body, is a healthy tan covering that sexy bodyMen, are naturally (no offence to any alpha females here), the dominant sex I think my list is far more interesting. So, discuss, and rank them if you like. Cheers, D.
Green Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 1) Good Looks Okay this is fairly obvious, good looks are a must for the perfect girl. Every guy, or rather human being, loves to look at a pretty face, whether it's enhanced with make-up or not, it's down to personal preference, but if using make-ups help you look better, then by all means start learning! Sure, the world may say "beauty is only skin deep" and "it's the personality that matters" but let's face it, that's only comfort sayings and excuses. 2) Good Personality I know, good looks kind of contradict good personality, but for the perfect girl, she should have a good personality too. So what exactly is a good personality? Well, a few of the qualities i find that are most attractive of a girl are : humbleness, demure, humor-filled, good talker and a good listener. 3) Good Dress Sense Yup, good dress sense makes the list too. Lose the baggy clothes, men love to see the curves of a women body, and if you could dress up to show that off, why not right? Which also brings me to my next point, to be able to show off your curves, you also need a good body. 4) Good Body Yes, every anorexic's greatest enemy. Contrary to what most girls believe, it is not being skinny that would make you sexy, in fact, it's having a mix of toned muscles and slimness. Skinniness should not even classify as being beautiful, it can in fact be even classified as scary. So don't starve yourself, in fact, exercise more and eat right. 5) Some Sexy Talent This can come in the form of singing, playing the piano, dancing ballet or anything else that makes a girl look sexy. Personally, i think a girl looks twice as beautiful when she can sing. So don't put off dancing lessons or piano lessons, the piano scores aren't the only scores you'll be getting, if you get what i mean. -grins. 6) Get A Healthy Tan edit: + No Tan Lines Face it, no one (or at least few men) have a fetish for albinos (no offence to anyone reading this), what makes men drool, besides a sexy body, is a healthy tan covering that sexy body. It doesn't matter if it's a spray on tan or a real tan, they're still equally attractive. So if you've been hiding under shelter all your life avoiding the sun, it's about time you go get a tan! Go take up a sport, go to the beach or anything that puts you under the sun! 7) Don't Be Domineering I cannot emphasize the importance of this last point. Men, are naturally (no offence to any alpha females here), the dominant sex, while women are the fairer sex. So, for most men, at least, it would be a direct attack at their ego and pride if a women tries to dominate their encounters. Thus, if you're the kind of women who rules over men like they're your little puppies, perhaps you could tone down a bit and you'll soon see more men daring to approach you. So, these are the few qualities and characteristics that i believe a perfect girl should possess. Have anything to add guys? Or anything to defend girls? Feel free to comment below and we'll discuss about it! -grins. These are all subjective so I agree with none of them. I personally do not find obese women attractive but have in the past found women with a little extra meat on the body super sexy. If you are waiting for the perfect girl, you are going to miss out on so many good things. You're list sounds plastic and devoid of anything real, true, passionate or even human. But hey, good luck with that. I wouldn't date a girl unless she was perfect... although I have very different tastes then the OP...... I do not like tan girls and love how pale my gf is and find her mostly perfect for me as far as looks, personality, body ect.
Awesome Username Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Lol, it's shallow but at least it's humanly attainable. The truth is that a lot of womens' lists for a perfect man would likely be almost unattainable. I got one for ya: The perfect wiener shape in the designer jeans of a billionaire monogamist who is strikingly handsome, great with children, brilliant and is a fantastic cook. He should be tall, dark, and badass but with a gentle side. He is descended from royalty and owns a LOT of property. He doesn't mind doing chores, drinks socially, and and has a good sense of humor.
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Is this list in the order of importance? No one should strive to be the perfect girl or the perfect guy. Perfect is subjective, therefore non-existent. Healthy tan? There is no such thing - a tan is indicative of burnt skin.
Southern Belle Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 As a woman of Scottish/Irish ancestry, I guess that I should be thankful that there are men willing to look past my porcelain skin to see that there is a pretty decent human being underneath. Many failed attempts at sun-worshipping during my much more vain teen years did not bring about tan skin, just a multitude of freckles. But, hey, they're cute!! I will say that I will never resort to using any "tan-in-a-can" spray or baking myself in a tanning machine to garner the attention of any man. If he makes an issue of my peaches-and-cream complexion being a deal-breaker, then he is not worthy of my time. But one positive, I have no tan lines!!!
Green Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Lol, it's shallow but at least it's humanly attainable. The truth is that a lot of womens' lists for a perfect man would likely be almost unattainable. I got one for ya: The perfect wiener shape in the designer jeans of a billionaire monogamist who is strikingly handsome, great with children, brilliant and is a fantastic cook. He should be tall, dark, and badass but with a gentle side. He is descended from royalty and owns a LOT of property. He doesn't mind doing chores, drinks socially, and and has a good sense of humor. So your perfect guy is honest, hard working, in shape, tall dark and badass but gentle with you and funny not affraid to let loose and do his fair share of house work.... is it really that important that he be inbred royalty or have a billion or more dollars? As a woman of Scottish/Irish ancestry, I guess that I should be thankful that there are men willing to look past my porcelain skin to see that there is a pretty decent human being underneath. Many failed attempts at sun-worshipping during my much more vain teen years did not bring about tan skin, just a multitude of freckles. But, hey, they're cute!! I will say that I will never resort to using any "tan-in-a-can" spray or baking myself in a tanning machine to garner the attention of any man. If he makes an issue of my peaches-and-cream complexion being a deal-breaker, then he is not worthy of my time. But one positive, I have no tan lines!!! Seriously I don't care about tan lines... but most of all I love porcelain skin!!! super hot
theBrokenMuse Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 This is honestly the biggest load of vacuous rubbish I've read for weeks. So I'm going to make a list of my own: the douchiest comments made in the original list The douchiness is strong in this one. Seriously, I when I read some of the sentences in the OP's post I cringed.
Yukikazi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 As a woman of Scottish/Irish ancestry, I guess that I should be thankful that there are men willing to look past my porcelain skin to see that there is a pretty decent human being underneath. But one positive, I have no tan lines!!! No worries darling.. there are plenty of us out there that love the porcelain skin thing..
Els Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 I'm just waiting for someone to counter with a thread about 'The Perfect Guy'. I can just visualize it now... 1) Millionaire 2) Sensitive 3) But also strong and manly! 4) AND a rocket scientist, too 5) So good in bed that he gives his woman 5 orgasms, every night 6) But doesn't look at other women! Yeah, that about sounds similar to this thread..
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 My guy likes those things about me. In his opinion I am perfect. The only one he would disagree with is the tan skin thing. My skin is pale, pale white, and I'm a redhead. That is a downright fetish for him, and he digs it.
2sunny Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 my biggest turn off is a man who expects or wants perfection - it's a setup for failure at every turn. nope, no thank you, no way, no how!
Awesome Username Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 So your perfect guy is honest, hard working, in shape, tall dark and badass but gentle with you and funny not affraid to let loose and do his fair share of house work.... is it really that important that he be inbred royalty or have a billion or more dollars? It's a joke - this man cannot possibly exist. Why would a billionaire ever need to do housework?
Southern Belle Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 No worries darling.. there are plenty of us out there that love the porcelain skin thing.. Well thanks, I feel so loved now!! I knew that there were some guys out there that wouldn't mind!
Awesome Username Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Well thanks, I feel so loved now!! I knew that there were some guys out there that wouldn't mind! Any guy who does not dig whities will not be a happy camper with me, either. Spray tans cost about 30 - 40 dollars a week to keep up.
Southern Belle Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Any guy who does not dig whities will not be a happy camper with me, either. Spray tans cost about 30 - 40 dollars a week to keep up. Yowza!! No idea that the spray can stuff is that expensive!! It's a good thing that I do not mind being so fair. I would have no idea what I was doing the spray cans anyway, I would end up all polka-dotted!!
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