little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 I had been seeing a guy for a month (I know, very short amount of time) but I really liked him. He ended it because he said he still has a lot of feelings for his ex. We still stayed in contact for a few days after he ended it and he said he wanted to meet up to discuss trying again. This was a couple days before Christmas. We didn't meet up but he sent me a text to say Merry Christmas and also "have a good day cutie". I texted him the next day but he said he couldn't chat because he was getting ready to go on a trip and then he sent a face. I haven't heard from him since. I have realized he has absolutely no feelings or me whatsoever but I can't stop thinking about him!! I am trying to restrain myself from texting him Happy New Year because I don't want to turn into that crazy girl who won't leave a guy alone. Should I just suck it up and text him or go with the whole NC thing and try to get over it????
Author little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 well nevermind, I just deleted him off Facebook which was probably immature but oh well... Its what I needed to do I guess
LovelyDaze Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 You just did excellently! You have to be superlucky to have only been involved 1 month. Keep NC on this guy. The red flag is him wanting to reconnect with his ex..let him do whatever he needs to do. Like you said, don't be "that girl" all clingy and possessive. It just pushes people away further.
Gumy Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 You made a good decision, no one likes to be the rebound. Good for him in being honest but I really don't see any harm in texting him happy new year.
Howitzer Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Ditto on the rebound idea. Let him get his stuff together before you bother with him. It's probably best to get out before you get too involved with him, especially because he may be in rebound mode right now.
Author little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 Ok so I know I made the right decision. But why doesn't it feel right? I wish I could will him to call me with my mind hah I feel like I'm going insane!!!!!
gaudi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 You ain't going insane, because if you are that means I am too. Staring at my phone using the power of the mind to make her want to call me......that's not insane.....is it ??
TaraMaiden Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Because you're emotionally invested. You still have a romantic interest, even though he's shucked you off.....
Author little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 hahaha gaudi, lets put our brains together and will them to both call us. Theres a big snow storm going on outside so I've been stuck in house all day with nothing to do which makes it even worse.
gaudi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 it doesn't appear to be working at all TM. I guess I should just text her...right ??
Author little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 not working for me either I guess I'll give up.. no way I'm contacting him.. especially after I deleted him of FB lol I think that will make me look just a little crazy
gaudi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Yeah am not going to be texting her either, have just written a really long e-mail to her. haven't sent it though, saved it to me drafts.
Author little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 Don't send it!! How long have you been NC?
gaudi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Since december 13th, she texted me happy xmas on xmas day and I texted back. Last time I tried NC, she sent me a work e-mail after about five days. To which I replied, but the it turned out she thought I was being short with her, I think because my reply wasn't "how much I love you" and stuff. I did ask her to send me some pictures I wanted, this was on december 13th, she said she would as soon as she got back from a 10 day holiday. She hasn't sent them. I get the feeling she wants me to contact her again asking for them.
nobmagnet Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 guadi. you little sh*t. i thought you were gonna live our dreams thro you?????!!! You social life ect. dont do it leave in drafts you ans liitle bear doing well!! ............... i see a date!!?? hhahaha love nob
gaudi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Sorry nob, bit of a relapse today, been in tears all day, not sure why though. Haven't contacted her though.
nobmagnet Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 hey says she who is listening to The Smiths..........................heaven knows im miserable now....!! hahaha wollow wollow x
lostboyuk Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 OMG what's going on in here? Do not even talk about such things, I need you lot sane to pick me up over the next few days!!! Little bear, you did great.
nobmagnet Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 bad day? sorry love i recommend the smiths as long as you dont have a lake or bridge to jump in...........................hahahaha xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx that goes for you too little bear. love your name it cute xxxxxx
gaudi Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 i recommend the smiths as long as you dont have a lake or bridge to jump in...........................hahahaha Someone recommended Chaz n Dave the other day, think that nearly tipped me over the edge !!!
nobmagnet Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 sorry lost boy i dont recommend The Smiths as much as I love morresey.............you have a big day tomor. maybe...........i repeat sorry but chaz n dave?? aint no pleasing you. always brings a tear to my eye........hhahah xx
Author little_bear Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 wahhhh I wish we all lived in the same place and then we could wallow together hah Thanks Nob, I like your name too.. It describes how I feel about myself sometimes
nobmagnet Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 ****...............just done it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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