Green Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Here is my very simple bare bones poorly spelled and gramared guid to getting women. 1) be a creep! yes thats right be creepy because while girls hate creeps, the only difference between a creep and a bf is that the creep got rejected. I think men often confuse this fact in this mind and are afraid to do the creepy things women find attractive. 2) Be Tall! yes its sad but true but most women I've met in life like tall men. So stand up straight, show them your tall. If you are short there is nothing you can really do accept where shoes that make you taller, but more importantly then that even if you are not above six foot you can make a woman have the same feelings she gets with a tall man just realize its an uphill battle. 3) Make them laugh! lets face it women are looking for a good laugh all the time, so if you can make them laugh then you can make them wet. Only exception is if you are making them laugh at your expense this could effect the attraction levels. 4) Finaly my attempt at a catchall be confident/ that means in everything from the way you look, smell, live your life ect. this means you can handle rejection so you're not worried to say and do what you want.... this doesn't mean be fake or cocky or arogant and yeah if you can do all this you will get a girl no problem, one of those hot ones that make you jzz in your pants
Brightmoon Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 . 2) Be Tall! yes its sad but true but most women I've met in life like tall men. So stand up straight, show them your tall. If you are short there is nothing you can really do accept where shoes that make you taller, but more importantly then that even if you are not above six foot you can make a woman have the same feelings she gets with a tall man just realize its an uphill battle. There are exceptions... http://www.celebrity-gossip-pictures.com/pix/sophie-dahl-jamie-cullum.jpg (Hope link works... ) They are very much in love..
Author Green Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 There are exceptions... http://www.celebrity-gossip-pictures.com/pix/sophie-dahl-jamie-cullum.jpg (Hope link works... ) They are very much in love.. Thats not an exception, to her he is tall, she doesn't see him as short.
cognac Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Obviously, you don't necessarily HAVE to be tall if you are a rich, famous, rock star.
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 There are exceptions... http://www.celebrity-gossip-pictures.com/pix/sophie-dahl-jamie-cullum.jpg Jamie Cullum is a musician, they can get away with anything (I play the guitar ). It's sad that the status quo is that men are shallow and women aren't. Or, men think with their lower region and women think with their head. Total bull, men and women are equally shallow when it comes to finding a sexual partner. They just look for different things.
cognac Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Jamie Cullum is a musician, they can get away with anything (I play the guitar ). It's sad that the status quo is that men are shallow and women aren't. Or, men think with their lower region and women think with their head. Total bull, men and women are equally shallow when it comes to finding a sexual partner. They just look for different things. It's not really sad, it's just stupid. Only people who believe it are guys who have little to no romantic experience with women. That or they're guys who get rejected again and again but think it's their personality or "approach", rather than the fact that they are short or don't own a car. Self-delusional.
Bejita463 Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Here is my very simple bare bones poorly spelled and gramared guid to getting women. 1) be a creep! white noise and Charlie Brown wah wah wahhhhh I couldn't even get past this. I am curious. Are you in a relationship, or currently enjoying actual success pursuing women?
Author Green Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 I couldn't even get past this. I am curious. Are you in a relationship, or currently enjoying actual success pursuing women? Well this advice was only on how to get a woman and not how to keep a woman but I am currently in a relationship of over a year. I put the creep thing down because I fully believe it to be true
sugar_and_spice Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Oh, I thought this was going to be another 'Be a jerk to get a woman' thread.
Bejita463 Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Well this advice was only on how to get a woman and not how to keep a woman but I am currently in a relationship of over a year. I put the creep thing down because I fully believe it to be true Fair enough. I asked because that looked suspiciously like the misdirected effort of someone who should be trying to take advice rather than give it. If you got/kept your girl using these techniques, that statement would not apply. Which is why I asked, of course.
Author Green Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 Fair enough. I asked because that looked suspiciously like the misdirected effort of someone who should be trying to take advice rather than give it. If you got/kept your girl using these techniques, that statement would not apply. Which is why I asked, of course. got plenty of girls using these basic principles yes, but once you get past the honey moon phase of a relationship you need an entirely different set of skills to make things work ontop of these basics. honey moon phase typicaly lasts any where from a month to a year depending on how much you see each other at least in my experience
Yukikazi Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Being a creep.. bad idea.. You don't need to be a dick/prick/creep/douche/ahole to get a girl. Just be funny, positive, flirty and have high energy. I met a bunch of new people lastnight just being fun and happy.. not being a creep or a dick or anything negative. I ended up having girls literally pawing at me (the right shirt helps) cause I was making them happy and showing them a good time.
james123 Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Being a creep.. bad idea.. You don't need to be a dick/prick/creep/douche/ahole to get a girl. Just be funny, positive, flirty and have high energy. I met a bunch of new people lastnight just being fun and happy.. not being a creep or a dick or anything negative. I ended up having girls literally pawing at me (the right shirt helps) cause I was making them happy and showing them a good time. exactly. I think it's a myth that girls go for jerks.
Yukikazi Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 exactly. I think it's a myth that girls go for jerks. No its not a myth.. it is a fact... I'm just saying its not the only way to get girls..
Yamaha Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Be Tall! :eek Hope ur ready for the fallout with this statement.
bwidger Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 No its not a myth.. it is a fact... I'm just saying its not the only way to get girls.. It's a myth...
bwidger Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 We will have to disagree Then how do you explain all the nice guys having girlfriends?
Author Green Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 exactly. I think it's a myth that girls go for jerks. Just look around you and you'll see that girls go for jerks... although thinking that being a jerk gets you a girl would be wrong No its not a myth.. it is a fact... I'm just saying its not the only way to get girls.. Of course you don't have to be a creep to get girls, or be tall, or be funny, or anything... but this post was about increasing your odds and getting a girl. I do not think being a creep and being a jerk are synonymous either. :eek Hope ur ready for the fallout with this statement. Why? I'm not saying being short is anything to be ashamed of, and of course short men will be able to get gf's and wives who are happy with them I'm just saying being tall helps and if your not tall you have to be tall in the womans heart which is all that really counts any ways It's a myth... Its called reality just look at the way all the male charaters on womens tv shows act. Look at how much women love twighlight... watch reruns of the Jerry Springer show...... Any ways I said be a creep, not a jerk.... but maybe some people do find that the same thing... maybe they are Then how do you explain all the nice guys having girlfriends? How do you explain all the fat women with husbands and boyfriends? Well you wouldn't say men really like women who way more then 200lbs... you would say its a free country and that love conquers all. look if a girl decides to be with some guy that can only be described as nice then thats her decision it doesn't meant that is what should be strived for, neither do I think being a jerk is a good thing. but lets face it a little creepyness is needed
Yukikazi Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Then how do you explain all the nice guys having girlfriends? You appear to have glossed over or just plain didn't read my comment earlier Maybe you should go back and reread it a few times till you realize what I wrote
Author Green Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 You appear to have glossed over or just plain didn't read my comment earlier Maybe you should go back and reread it a few times till you realize what I wrote yes its pretty frustrating people don't read and harp over one word and their interpretation of what you must of meant.
Woody1 Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Regarding the tall thing... I'm small myself (5ft 5) and i do agree with it sort of, most girls simply won't go with a guy if he his smaller than her. Being small isn't really a problem though because girls are generally smaller on average anyway and there's plenty of girls of all sizes out there. I don't have a problem getting girls i just don't go for the tall ones
lecasanova Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 haha no you don't have to be tall! it helps to be tall but i believe as long as you're a little taller than the girl, with her wearing heels already, all will work fine. women and heels come as a package, you can't take them away, haha.
Author Green Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 Regarding the tall thing... I'm small myself (5ft 5) and i do agree with it sort of, most girls simply won't go with a guy if he his smaller than her. Being small isn't really a problem though because girls are generally smaller on average anyway and there's plenty of girls of all sizes out there. I don't have a problem getting girls i just don't go for the tall ones You can be 4ft 4 and get a girl sure but you might have an uphill battle. Plenty of short guys get women but I don't think any one can argue that being tall doesn't help haha no you don't have to be tall! it helps to be tall but i believe as long as you're a little taller than the girl, with her wearing heels already, all will work fine. women and heels come as a package, you can't take them away, haha. You don't have to be able to walk but it helps is all I'm saying. look it doesn't really matter what women want in the end if you want to look at it your way.... because unconfident, boring, short, out of shape ect. guys get girls all the time.....
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