mizundastud Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 After all the thinking about if he'll ever come back will we reconcile. I think that working on myself will solve my problems. Accepting that its over and that I have to move on is gonna be hard but something I just I have to do. Learning to be happy with myself and by myself is what matters most so from now on I'm in a relationship with me.
HeavenOrHell Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Sounds good to me I need to do this too. After all the thinking about if he'll ever come back will we reconcile. I think that working on myself will solve my problems. Accepting that its over and that I have to move on is gonna be hard but something I just I have to do. Learning to be happy with myself and by myself is what matters most so from now on I'm in a relationship with me.
Brightmoon Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 After all the thinking about if he'll ever come back will we reconcile. I think that working on myself will solve my problems. Accepting that its over and that I have to move on is gonna be hard but something I just I have to do. Learning to be happy with myself and by myself is what matters most so from now on I'm in a relationship with me. Me to Miz...it's my only hope. Got to say, right now I hate myself so much, I can;t see a point that I will ever like myself or my own company. But it is my only hope. Here's to us!! Hugs.
Author mizundastud Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 Me to Miz...it's my only hope. Got to say, right now I hate myself so much, I can;t see a point that I will ever like myself or my own company. But it is my only hope. Here's to us!! Hugs. Why do you hate urself? You have to find things you like doin and what makes you happy as an individual. You have to find what makes you better and what makes you feel good about you. I'm just realizing this myself. They way we treat ourselves is the way others will treat So look in the mirror tell urself that your a good person and have a lot to offer and start from there. And if you feel like those statements are untrue now you know that you have some work to do which should keep you feelin positive and remove all those negative thoughts.
Brightmoon Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Why do you hate urself? You have to find things you like doin and what makes you happy as an individual. You have to find what makes you better and what makes you feel good about you. I'm just realizing this myself. They way we treat ourselves is the way others will treat So look in the mirror tell urself that your a good person and have a lot to offer and start from there. And if you feel like those statements are untrue now you know that you have some work to do which should keep you feelin positive and remove all those negative thoughts. Thanks so much miz... I really do have a lot of work to do. I was told and treated like I was utterly useless right from when I was a tot. Those messages were never meant to hurt me or stay with me for this long. (although they were constantly repeated way into my adulthood) I never found a way to get rid of them. It's like those awful messages are inscribed in each cell .. in my DNA... But I have to really, really work on it miz, and I think this is the year for me to do it... it really is.. Thanks again for your kind words.. It really helped me.. ((hugs))
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