b52s Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 You delete responses to your FB status? I get a kick out of people....saw this post by someone in my friends list...."Hung over for 2009 and a bit heart broken" I responded, "Hangover on NY...not uncommon, lol....heartbroken? What happened?" It got deleted.....my only real reason why it got deleted was because she didn't want to talk about it (or at least have people see she wouldn't have to explain it to the public known as her "Friends list") But, I see this a lot, people post crap bitchin about something, or something vague about their love or personal life...and then when you ask them about it....they delete it or even have the nerve to say "Nunya" Anyone have anyone in your friend's list like this?
littlebittle Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 They probably post it when they're upset or maybe even intoxicated, and then when they go back to look at it they realize that it's TMI, inappropriate, embarrassing, ect.
Author b52s Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 They probably post it when they're upset or maybe even intoxicated, and then when they go back to look at it they realize that it's TMI, inappropriate, embarrassing, ect. Actually, she's been known to do this sober as well.
Yukikazi Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Why is it such a big deal.. there are no rules saying people have to leave up comments.. I delete annoying ones also.. I have control over whats on my wall for everyone to see.. sometimes I must police it.
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 They like drama. I find people like this unbearably boring.
hoping2heal Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 You delete responses to your FB status? I get a kick out of people....saw this post by someone in my friends list...."Hung over for 2009 and a bit heart broken" I responded, "Hangover on NY...not uncommon, lol....heartbroken? What happened?" It got deleted.....my only real reason why it got deleted was because she didn't want to talk about it (or at least have people see she wouldn't have to explain it to the public known as her "Friends list") But, I see this a lot, people post crap bitchin about something, or something vague about their love or personal life...and then when you ask them about it....they delete it or even have the nerve to say "Nunya" Anyone have anyone in your friend's list like this? LOL. Well, I see plenty of melodramatic statuses on FB but I often don't bother to ask about it. I'm actually quite embarassed for some of the things people post on their facebook. That said I do know what kind of person you are talking about- and they are the most annoying species on the planet IMHO. As you said- most of them don't JUST do this when they are sober. They pull out the theatrics and then should anyone ask what the problem is, they act all offended you would want to be up in your business. It's like REALLY?
Rollercoasterr Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Is this the same girl that you've been flirting with who also told you to knock it off because of her boyfriend??? If it is, no wonder she deleted it. It's none of your business and with the way you've been acting she probably knows you're going to use it to talk crap about her boyfriend. You just need to take it that she's not interested in you and cut it out once and for all. However, if it's not this girl, people have their reasons for not wanting to explain why they're heartbroken on facebook. Maybe they've got people on there they don't know in real life and don't feel like explaining it for everyone to see. Probably would have been nicer for you to send a message anyway instead of asking it in public view.\ Either way, you should probably really stay away from facebook for a while. It's causing too much unnecessary drama in your life.
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Probably would have been nicer for you to send a message anyway instead of asking it in public view. Yes much better. I rarely post on people's walls when I use Facebook. It's a great way to see tons of pics of a girl before you go out with her. Great site.
ordinary_girl Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 You delete responses to your FB status? I get a kick out of people....saw this post by someone in my friends list...."Hung over for 2009 and a bit heart broken" I responded, "Hangover on NY...not uncommon, lol....heartbroken? What happened?" It got deleted.....my only real reason why it got deleted was because she didn't want to talk about it (or at least have people see she wouldn't have to explain it to the public known as her "Friends list") But, I see this a lot, people post crap bitchin about something, or something vague about their love or personal life...and then when you ask them about it....they delete it or even have the nerve to say "Nunya" Anyone have anyone in your friend's list like this? why do you have people on your friend list you don't like?
ordinary_girl Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Yes much better. I rarely post on people's walls when I use Facebook. It's a great way to see tons of pics of a girl before you go out with her. Great site. that's really creepy
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 that's really creepy That's really cruel. Sending them messages instead of posting on their wall is the best thing to do, especially if you just started to talk to them. And looking at their pictures before I go out with them is creepy, ok . Your discernment of creepy is laughable. They are looking at mine as well.
ordinary_girl Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 That's really cruel. Sending them messages instead of posting on their wall is the best thing to do, especially if you just started to talk to them. And looking at their pictures before I go out with them is creepy, ok . Your discernment of creepy is laughable. They are looking at mine as well. the way you worded your previous post sounded creepy I'm sorry. like some guy that would want to get on a friend list so she could ogle a girl.
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 the way you worded your previous post sounded creepy I'm sorry. like some guy that would want to get on a friend list so she could ogle a girl. Girls that I have added from dating sites (very common) or just meeting them in life and am interested in dating them. Not random girls that don't know who I am.
ordinary_girl Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Girls that I have added from dating sites (very common) or just meeting them in life and am interested in dating them. Not random girls that don't know who I am. ok understand. I suppose I find it bizarre that anyone would ad a complete stranger (or almost complete stranger) to their fb account and allow to see their private life I know friends of mine google girls' names when they start seeing them. that's a bit weird to me too to be honest
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 ok understand. I suppose I find it bizarre that anyone would ad a complete stranger (or almost complete stranger) to their fb account and allow to see their private life I know friends of mine google girls' names when they start seeing them. that's a bit weird to me too to be honest I guess it's a bit odd. I always make sure it's ok with them before I ask to be added. Most of the time they ask me to be their friend first. I like that, that way I know for certain that they are comfortable with it. You get a heck of alot more pics on Facebook than the lousy few on a dating site. I've never added a girl and then not wanted to date her because of her Facebook pics. It usually solidifies that I made a good decision .
Author b52s Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 why do you have people on your friend list you don't like? I never said I didn't like them.....you like putting words in peoples mouths, dont ya.
Author b52s Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 I guess it's a bit odd. I always make sure it's ok with them before I ask to be added. Most of the time they ask me to be their friend first. I like that, that way I know for certain that they are comfortable with it. You get a heck of alot more pics on Facebook than the lousy few on a dating site. I've never added a girl and then not wanted to date her because of her Facebook pics. It usually solidifies that I made a good decision . True about the pics.....if someone I know has some friends I've probably seen with them out and about....I'll introduce myself (saying I know their friend) and just send them a message...the friends request would come later...if she is even responsive. If I met them out and about as acquaintances (like at a friends house party or something like that), I don't see why I wouldn't introduce myself. FB is a poor man's Dating site. LOL
sagetalk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 If I met them out and about as acquaintances (like at a friends house party or something like that), I don't see why I wouldn't introduce myself. That's not how I do it. I get her interested in me, then Facebook. Works much better, less creepy for her too.
ordinary_girl Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 If I met them out and about as acquaintances (like at a friends house party or something like that), I don't see why I wouldn't introduce myself. FB is a poor man's Dating site. LOL You see now sagetalk what I meant
Author b52s Posted January 2, 2010 Author Posted January 2, 2010 That's not how I do it. I get her interested in me, then Facebook. Works much better, less creepy for her too. Meh, you have your method, I have mine <shrug> You just do it in a different order. Makes no diff. to me...I've done it that way, too. It's depends on someone's opinion on what is considered "creepy".
Star Gazer Posted January 2, 2010 Posted January 2, 2010 Is this the same girl that you've been flirting with who also told you to knock it off because of her boyfriend??? If it is, no wonder she deleted it. It's none of your business and with the way you've been acting she probably knows you're going to use it to talk crap about her boyfriend. You just need to take it that she's not interested in you and cut it out once and for all. However, if it's not this girl, people have their reasons for not wanting to explain why they're heartbroken on facebook. Maybe they've got people on there they don't know in real life and don't feel like explaining it for everyone to see. Probably would have been nicer for you to send a message anyway instead of asking it in public view.\ Either way, you should probably really stay away from facebook for a while. It's causing too much unnecessary drama in your life. Agreed! 10000% Bells, please...stop using FB to pick up on chicks. Seriously. Particularly in this manner...
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