bluestraps Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 I strongly urge all of thoes who are able to function normaly to some degree to put the past behind you . Dont waste your energy on what is in the past.Now is the time to look at ourselves. How can we improve ourselves so that when someone new comes along we can make the most of it.What i'd like here is a thread of positive thoughts going that are in the same spirit of my short statement
nobmagnet Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 right here is my plan. I will have as many adventures both with my children and alone. I want to experience now things and learn more about the world. I want to make both my childrens and my life the best it can be. And I will continue to move forward x
lostboyuk Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 I've posted something similar on another thread earlier. Us LSers should take pride in the fact that although things are horrible now most of us (simply by the fact we're on here) are more capable emotionally than others to maintain a true and long lasting relationship. We have felt love, looked at ourselves, learned and will one day have what we deserve and long for so much.....happiness and the chance to be with someone who loves us the same way back.
LovelyDaze Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 I can guarantee that ALL LS members will be happier this time on January 1, 2011. Just follow the great advice/opinions and do the HARD work of healing. *Remember, healing isn't an easy task and that's why it works!
HLP234 Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 You never know what can happen. The same way this person randomly came into my life, I'm pretty sure it will take a while before someone else does the same way..but that's the point. Just like this had happened, something else will happen and I'll be able to move on. The only thing that sucks is coping with the pain that you did nothing wrong and the other person just randomly left..with no offer to talk things out or anything, left everything hanging. But as they say, what goes around comes around...and even they may not realize it now because of selfishness, but they will later. All I can do is hope for the best for myself and everyone else.
Vampire Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Good thread. Positive energy. Since my break up in June, I have gone to college, maintained distinctions for every assignment and have been elected an exec on the Student Union. She can't take that away from me. Next year, I will maintain my marks, work hard to be accepted into the universoty of my choice and start a degree. That's the mental taken care of. I'll get myself back into shape. Re-gain those 4 stone I lost. Maybe enter another tournament. And prove that it takes more than a manipulative liar to keep a good man down. I also hope to find the yin to my yang. There will be good days. There will be bad days. We can handle it.
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