Ryant34231 Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 So my name is Ryan and I live in Orlando Fl. I have recently gotten involved with a woman and we had sex. After a couple days pass by she tells me she married. So i think to myself well thats it. Not that easy. She fires back with she is falling for me as I am her. She says that there are a lot of things she is lacking in her marriage sex not being the main issue. I have developed feelings towards her and she has to me as well. I guess what I am asking is for someone to guide me to the right thing to do. Do I continue to see her or let her be in her marriage ? Someone help please!! Ryan
Aberrant Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 You should tell her you can't see her until her marriage is over. If your relationship with her is born out of adultery it will not last. Maybe it doesn't seem that different from other relationships to you but it will be to her. How will you take her seriously when she looks you in your eye and tells you that she takes her marriage vows seriously, when you know she cheated in the past? Do you really want to be the third wheel on this motorcycle? If her marriage is over, tell her to separate from her husband and you can see her. Otherwise, you should leave her alone, unless you are OK being her backup plan or f***buddy.
JaneInVegas Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Ryan, I have been the cheat-er and the cheat-ee, and I'm telling ya buddy, you are playing with fire. End it ... end it now before you invest anything more into this woman. If you want to have a relationship with her, tell her it's over with until she lives alone, and you are free to show up at her door unannounced at 2:00 am. Until then, please do yourself a favor (not to mention her husband and family) and bow out gracefully.
Author Ryant34231 Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 I have reached my decision. I am ending it with her. I think I will take your advice and tell her that when she lives alone and I can show up a 2 am then i can see her...... thank you everyone
2sunny Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 I have reached my decision. I am ending it with her. I think I will take your advice and tell her that when she lives alone and I can show up a 2 am then i can see her...... thank you everyone how about when the divorce is final? makes this roller coaster ride a tiny bit smoother...
Author Ryant34231 Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 Yeah that would be nice but I cant tell how serious she is about all of that. I know she has feelings about me and who i am as a person but like i said I cant tell. I cant wait 10 years for her to finally divorce him........
2sunny Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 Yeah that would be nice but I cant tell how serious she is about all of that. I know she has feelings about me and who i am as a person but like i said I cant tell. I cant wait 10 years for her to finally divorce him........ aaaahhhh, i see - but you can wait until she's just on her own to have sex with her, right? so, is the priority just sex with this married woman? you do realize that by taking her time and energy and emotions away from her M that you are destroying her potential to make her M work don't you? if she essentially gives all that to you - what's left to give the M?
Author Ryant34231 Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 Your not understanding me. I am letting her go all together..... I dont want to be #2 for anyone. She can make her own choices. Im done.
Author Ryant34231 Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 I think it is the best thing to do.......
Blindsidedagainalive Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 How would you like it if someone was ****ing your wife. Think about it.....how would you feel. I am a man who was cheated on. It was the worst experience of my entire life. Worse than my mothers death by far. DROP THIS WOMAN NOW!
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