scenester Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 So I was seeing this girl for about 5-6 months. We had such a great time together. The only reason we went our separate ways is cause she wasn't ready for a boyfriend at that time, and ultimately that's what I wanted. (No, She was not seeing another guy.) Anyways, she contacted me last week. I haven't seen her since her birthday in November, which I only saw her briefly, wished her a happy birthday, and she said "I miss you" and hugged me while I was talking. We haven't talked for very long since October where we stopped seeing each other. Do you thing she really missed me? Well, anyways we talked for a good 40 mins, catching up on everything, we both enjoyed hearing from each other, and she was a little flirtatious, so I was a little too. I ended it cause I told her I was going to get a haircut, she said okay call me sometime and lets hangout, I said sure. I admit it, I miss this girl. Do you think she's trying to communicate to me that she wants me back? What if we hangout and she starts flirting with me a lot (touching, etc...)? Should I roll with it? Should I show some signs of interest again or let her? Should I always wait for her to contact me? What's her motive of doing this? ***She called me yesterday asking where I got this particular piercing done, I told her and she said "oh you'll have to take me some day, i dont know where that is. I was at work so I cut it short. She said to give her a call later. I called her today and she was at work. She texts mee a few hours later and says "why'd you text me with a cute way of saying my name." I said cause you told me to. She said lol oh yeah. And she hasn't said anything back.*** Thoughts?
Mary3 Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 I think you are really analyzing this .... She broke up with you and now she's back. For what purpose ? To hurt you again ? You being eager and available has given her the green light to break your heart again. Second Chances ? They don't have a high success rate. I would opt to be her friend instead and keep it casual if you think you can..
boogieboy Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 BTW when she broke it off with you, saying "she wasnt ready for a relationship", she just wasnt ready for a relationship with you. Just so you know, shes flirting with you now because it didnt work out with the guy she wanted the relationship with. Dont look into this, let her do all the initiating, tread lightly here, dont expect anything. She just might be looking for validation that you still want her. You should act like you dont.
trueblue72ny Posted January 1, 2010 Posted January 1, 2010 i say tread lightly also and if you start noticing any strange behavior than i would back off. this girl doesnt sound too stable. she might just be looking for some temporary company.
Author scenester Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 (edited) BTW when she broke it off with you, saying "she wasnt ready for a relationship", she just wasnt ready for a relationship with you. Just so you know, shes flirting with you now because it didnt work out with the guy she wanted the relationship with. Dont look into this, let her do all the initiating, tread lightly here, dont expect anything. She just might be looking for validation that you still want her. You should act like you dont. There was no other guy she wanted a relationship with. Now I actually think she may be seeing someone but I'm not a 100% positive. Still, even if she is NOW seeing someone its been like 4 months since we broke up. So it's not like she broke it off with me to see someone else. I do think she is seeking validation though, and I have been acting like I do not want her. Edited January 1, 2010 by scenester
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