Lesbian Relationship

[Lucy24]

i have been with my gf since january and we have been going steady

at the start eveything was all shiney and new and wonderfull baisicly the honeymoon period

 

we used to spend as much time as possible as she has not come out and she still lives with her parents so when they was away or out we would make time for each other

 

my place has never been an issue and she has allways had the option to come round that she dose for a cup of tea and to hog my remote and zone out at the t.v which is nice as i do like the quiet time and relaxtion

 

i do not know weather it is me or our relationship but the amount of time we spend together has grown its distance as well as phone calls and keeping in genrell

 

when there is free space it is never spent together like it once was over the before christmas season i spent away as she was full of dates and partys which was uderstandable and we hardly see each other

 

she left her job and had other responsibiltes but went back every tuesday to help out and still we spent less time and would see her once or twice a week she even forgot she worked one tuesday which struck me as odd as who forgets they work?

 

i explaind that we was not spending anytime together and i would like to see her if olny for a little while to at leaste do something as i was starting to miss her comapany but was put off with events with the same people for the 2 weeks going into christmas

 

due to this i am now pulling away and shuttin down my feelings for her i spoke to her and explaind why i felt like it and

 

when she ask me what im thinking of and i say her i her response is bad luck or mug which jokeingly brush off but said to many times is hard to take as a joke

 

sometimes she sends me txt which were for other people she constanly gose on about her friends and how she used to like one of them in genrell convosation and ask me about my ex's

 

hugs and kisses have become less and i dont know what to do

but i do know we have a comuniction break down

 

and this new years i am spending with my friends while she is staying at home

[Pizzaman81]

i have been with my gf since january and we have been going steady

at the start eveything was all shiney and new and wonderfull baisicly the honeymoon period

 

we used to spend as much time as possible as she has not come out and she still lives with her parents so when they was away or out we would make time for each other

 

my place has never been an issue and she has allways had the option to come round that she dose for a cup of tea and to hog my remote and zone out at the t.v which is nice as i do like the quiet time and relaxtion

 

i do not know weather it is me or our relationship but the amount of time we spend together has grown its distance as well as phone calls and keeping in genrell

 

when there is free space it is never spent together like it once was over the before christmas season i spent away as she was full of dates and partys which was uderstandable and we hardly see each other

 

she left her job and had other responsibiltes but went back every tuesday to help out and still we spent less time and would see her once or twice a week she even forgot she worked one tuesday which struck me as odd as who forgets they work?

 

i explaind that we was not spending anytime together and i would like to see her if olny for a little while to at leaste do something as i was starting to miss her comapany but was put off with events with the same people for the 2 weeks going into christmas

 

due to this i am now pulling away and shuttin down my feelings for her i spoke to her and explaind why i felt like it and

 

when she ask me what im thinking of and i say her i her response is bad luck or mug which jokeingly brush off but said to many times is hard to take as a joke

 

sometimes she sends me txt which were for other people she constanly gose on about her friends and how she used to like one of them in genrell convosation and ask me about my ex's

 

hugs and kisses have become less and i dont know what to do

but i do know we have a comuniction break down

 

and this new years i am spending with my friends while she is staying at home

 

 

Hmm perhaps the honeymoon period is over. There needs to be a different kind of love to make a relationship continue. Have you talked to her about it?

[laRubiaBonita]

hugs and kisses have become less and i dont know what to do

but i do know we have a comuniction break down

 

and this new years i am spending with my friends while she is staying at home

 

so cancel Your plans and spend NYE with her working on communication and getting some hugs and kisses in!

[gopher]

Since she hasn't come out with her parents, maybe she is trying to work through that aspect.