tVII Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 well i did it. i got over my ex. i let her go. however, i am bitter as hell. bitter that my life sucked for the most part as she gracefully lived on. bitter that life is indeed terribly unfair. bitter that life is so easy on her when it is so hard on me. how can someone as heartless and cold as her be able to be happy and win when i lose terribly. bitter and cold i am. im playing *another* girl now with no remorse. I turned into my ex. cold, unemotional and bitter. but for some reason shes happy at it. grrrrrrrrr somebody slap me. thats what im asking. Link to post Share on other sites
cdt76 Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 well i did it. i got over my ex. i let her go. however, i am bitter as hell. bitter that my life sucked for the most part as she gracefully lived on. bitter that life is indeed terribly unfair. bitter that life is so easy on her when it is so hard on me. how can someone as heartless and cold as her be able to be happy and win when i lose terribly. bitter and cold i am. im playing *another* girl now with no remorse. I turned into my ex. cold, unemotional and bitter. but for some reason shes happy at it. grrrrrrrrr somebody slap me. thats what im asking. Don't play another girl like you were played. It's not fair to you and it's not fair to the new girl. You can be bitter. That part is ok. Just don't torpedo a new girl to get back at the old one. The old one isn't happy. She is ignoring her pain by believing the guy she is with is better then you (at least in my case). The truth is he isn't. She isn't worth you. And if she wasn't willing to work on the relationship, then she doesn't deserve you. That is a hard concept to accept and internalize. I'm still not there. But think about this.... would you take her back? Really think about it. Would you? Link to post Share on other sites
xoxo88 Posted December 31, 2009 Share Posted December 31, 2009 I know how bitter feels but man don't go and hurt somebody else! Why would you do that? to get back at her? do you think she cares? Let me tell you something: she doesn't. If she cared about you she wouldn't have left you. Now let's get back to the part where you are playing some other girl. How would you feel if somebody did that to you? Horrible i guess. Just stop it. As soon as possible. I can give you 2 reasons why you shouldn't be doing that: 1.That girl is not to blame for what your ex did to you and she doesn't deserve to get hurt. 2.It is compleltely useless. Do you think this is gonna do any good to you? No. You're just gonna feel like garbage after hurting someone innocent. Link to post Share on other sites
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