confusedmuch Posted December 31, 2009 Posted December 31, 2009 I posted a question a while ago about this guy who I had rejected, who then went psycho on me (telling me off basically) then apologized a couple weeks later asking to be friends. I had asked you all whether he might be sincere and most everyone said he was just trying to get into my pants and to ignore him. But, me being so unfortunately nice and forgiving and trusting and NAIVE, I decided to try being friends with him. We hung out once, and yes, he did kind of, just kind of, try something without making it seem like he was trying anything. Today, he sent me several texts wanting me to come over to his house to hang out and said he had a surprise for me. I told him I couldn't make it, was too busy. Half an hour ago he sent me a text in his native language (which I don't speak but I happen to have a language translator on my phone) and it said "if you were here right now we would be cuddling". It might have been sweet, if not slightly annoying, had he said it in english. So yes, you were right and I was most definitely wrong Last time I ignore advice from LS!
tkgirl Posted December 31, 2009 Posted December 31, 2009 I posted a question a while ago about this guy who I had rejected, who then went psycho on me (telling me off basically) then apologized a couple weeks later asking to be friends. I had asked you all whether he might be sincere and most everyone said he was just trying to get into my pants and to ignore him. But, me being so unfortunately nice and forgiving and trusting and NAIVE, I decided to try being friends with him. We hung out once, and yes, he did kind of, just kind of, try something without making it seem like he was trying anything. Today, he sent me several texts wanting me to come over to his house to hang out and said he had a surprise for me. I told him I couldn't make it, was too busy. Half an hour ago he sent me a text in his native language (which I don't speak but I happen to have a language translator on my phone) and it said "if you were here right now we would be cuddling". It might have been sweet, if not slightly annoying, had he said it in english. So yes, you were right and I was most definitely wrong Last time I ignore advice from LS! most guys don't want to be "just friends"... they will almost always try something. It's something that I'm just coming to terms with myself too...
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