Cardell Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Ok, My girlfriend and her Mom had some financial problems, and I offered to give them money to help out. So when they received it my girlfriend was saying all these nice things about me to her mother, and her mom said that she needed to stay away from me and that she need to put a restraining order against me! ARE you serious?? First of all I didn't do anything, she never met me, never seen me, who says things like that? i was only trying to help! I was very angry and my girlfriend was yelling at me saying "just get over it, move on, Stop whining about it" which made me really pissed off. So i felt in my heart i had to walk away and break up with her. 4 weeks later, she's saying i want to be your girlfriend again. For me Something still doesn't feel right. Was I wrong for walking away?
Golfilla Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Ok, My girlfriend and her Mom had some financial problems, and I offered to give them money to help out. So when they received it my girlfriend was saying all these nice things about me to her mother, and her mom said that she needed to stay away from me and that she need to put a restraining order against me! ARE you serious?? First of all I didn't do anything, she never met me, never seen me, who says things like that? i was only trying to help! I was very angry and my girlfriend was yelling at me saying "just get over it, move on, Stop whining about it" which made me really pissed off. So i felt in my heart i had to walk away and break up with her. 4 weeks later, she's saying i want to be your girlfriend again. For me Something still doesn't feel right. Was I wrong for walking away? My first instinct is to simply get away and stay away. Break off all contact and never speak to her again. Don't go looking for revenge, just move on. If you really do want to be with this girl (and personally I wouldn't after a situation like that), then you need to be clear with her on your expectations, and one of those would be that her mother doesn't have any say in your relationship. However, I'm not sure about the sincerity of the "wanting to be your girlfriend" thing anyway. It's likely they're just in financial trouble again and want more money off you.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 The mom sounds psycho and the daughter isn't really that far from insane either. I think you're better off finding someone who's more " stable" in mentally and financially.
threebyfate Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Whoah, some pretty messed up stuff going on! Stay away from financially irresponsible women, who are loaded with drama! Run, Forrest, Run! You most definitely did the right thing by breaking it off. Stick to NC.
thats what i said Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 The way things ended before just sounds really weird. I actually can understand the mom getting nervous or freaking out a little if her daughter's boyfriend (whom she's never met) offers to help pay bills. My mom has actually flipped out on me when I was younger and had guys offer to pay my bills for me - I'd randomly mention it in a phone call to her and she'd be like "No! Don't take their money! You never know what they're going to expect in exchange for it!". But her mom sounds a little crazy. I would say stay away.
skydiveaddict Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 4 weeks later, she's saying i want to be your girlfriend again. For me Something still doesn't feel right. Was I wrong for walking away? it depends. is she really hot looking?
Art_Critic Posted December 31, 2009 Posted December 31, 2009 You got used... by both of them.. Learn from this and don't give people money and double that for people you don't know..
Vertex Posted December 31, 2009 Posted December 31, 2009 Whoah, some pretty messed up stuff going on! Stay away from financially irresponsible women, who are loaded with drama! Run, Forrest, Run! You most definitely did the right thing by breaking it off. Stick to NC. Oh god, truer words have never been spoken.
muse08 Posted December 31, 2009 Posted December 31, 2009 This sounds too strange. I feel like you're not telling us the whole story.
Vertex Posted December 31, 2009 Posted December 31, 2009 This sounds too strange. I feel like you're not telling us the whole story. Word. Why the heck would her reaction to money be a restraining order? The two don't make much sense in direct consideration. That's like offering someone a bite of ice cream and being called a racist or something. What on earth causes the jump from money offering to "stay away!!"?
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