sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Tell me again why it does not matter that it is my birthday and I should not care that I won't hear from her... She just always made a big deal about it... In my office hangs a large Dali puzzle we did together and she had framed for me last year... http://www.cise.ufl.edu/~fishwick/ac/2008/Dali_Temptation_of_St_Anthony.jpg Just a weak moment I guess guys...
nobmagnet Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 happy bithday sean xxxx I guess you are 40?? give us a bit of cake !!!???? hugs neet
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 happy bithday sean xxxx I guess you are 40?? give us a bit of cake !!!???? hugs neet 39... dont make me more depressed Thank you nobmagnet...
EricaH329 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 That picture is beautiful! But why do you still have it hung in your office? Didn't you put everything away that reminded you of her yet? If not, you should probably get on that. It doesn't matter that she's not going to wish you a Happy Birthday because she is an ex. She is no longer a part of your life. Just because she was a more recent ex, does not exclude the fact that she is, afterall, an ex. Think about ex's you've had from years ago. Do you expect (or care) that they aren't going to wish you a Happy Birthday? Of course not. That would be rediculous. I understand your pain and sadness. Especially around the holidays and your birthday. Those are always tough times for everyone. But try to see the bright side of this. Now, you have the opportunity to make your birthday into something that reminds you of the new life you currently have. Go out and have fun! Meet new people! Treat yourself! There is really only two ways of going about this. Thinking negatively or positively. And who really wants to think negatively? Not us!!
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 That picture is beautiful! But why do you still have it hung in your office? Didn't you put everything away that reminded you of her yet? If not, you should probably get on that. That is the only thing I left up... My office looks pretty bare without it... I suppose all the hours I/we put into it also makes it hard to part with. Giving it away just seems wrong. Think about ex's you've had from years ago. Do you expect (or care) that they aren't going to wish you a Happy Birthday? Of course not. That would be rediculous. Do I care, no... Did two of them already send me a HBday text, yes I understand your pain and sadness. Especially around the holidays and your birthday. Those are always tough times for everyone. But try to see the bright side of this. Now, you have the opportunity to make your birthday into something that reminds you of the new life you currently have. Go out and have fun! Meet new people! Treat yourself! There is really only two ways of going about this. Thinking negatively or positively. And who really wants to think negatively? Not us!! Thanks Erica...
HeavenOrHell Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Birthday hugs Sean Ugh, my ex will be 40 in may, guess I won't be invited to the party, I had plans of taking him to Paris, oh well...
Ms. Joolie Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Saw this thread and really just want to wish you a happy birthday, Sean. Happy Birthday .... let it be a total new year for you. Really spend the day not bemoaning the past but creating the future. Action. Take action. Your life depends on it. hehe. I know I should be banned from the coping section because I broke NC and stuff... but I don't regret it. I took action, and my life changed. Take YOUR action. Do what's right for you, but do it. I'm not saying go back, I'm saying do what you have to do to move forward and put your energy/thoughts into that today. Don't spend another moment on your birthday thinking about why she isn't calling or feeling sorry for yourself. Wishing you the best new year possible, Ms. Joolie
EricaH329 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 That is the only thing I left up... My office looks pretty bare without it... I suppose all the hours I/we put into it also makes it hard to part with. Giving it away just seems wrong. So instead of allowing your office to look bare, you have a constant reminder of her? You don't need to give it away, box it up and store it away. I have lots and lots of things from my ex. Things that mean a great deal to me. But I refuse to leave them hanging on my walls, or the pictures still on top of my dresser, why? Because that's torture. That part of my life has ended. I did not give them away or sell them, I boxed them up and put them in storage. Do I care, no... Did two of them already send me a HBday text, yes Well that's nice of them. Rare, but nice! Happy birthday BTW!
kickintheaz Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Happy Birthday to you, happy birthday to you, you look like a monkey and you smell like one too.. Sean... just think, the next time someone is wishing you that, you will be in a much better place, with much better people around you, and perhaps even a 'special someone' on your arm helping you blow out the candles... or at the very least helping to direct the firemen in to put em out!!! and ya better get rid of the picture or you're not going to have anywhere to hang the giant Collage of Megan Fox pics I am sending you now... Kick..
Kantor Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 and ya better get rid of the picture or you're not going to have anywhere to hang the giant Collage of Megan Fox pics I am sending you now... Kick.. A much better replacement for the puzzle! Happy Birthday!
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 dali was one weird phukk..... I rest my case. Happy birthday Sean, I really do wish you heaps of well... We have a great, 5000-piece double-sided jigsaw puzzle of marbles, if you want it. it's estimated that completion time, based on 3 hours/day work on it, would be about 5 years. It has a deckled edge (following the shape of the marbles...) Want it...
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 So instead of allowing your office to look bare, you have a constant reminder of her? You don't need to give it away, box it up and store it away. Yeah... I think I will... It does not hurt hurt to look at it; but it does remind me of that time... every time...
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 dali was one weird phukk..... I rest my case. Yeah, probably why I am drawn to him. Got the puzzle when his exhibit was here in Detroit. Really did enjoy it. Happy birthday Sean, I really do wish you heaps of well... Thank you Tara... We have a great, 5000-piece double-sided jigsaw puzzle of marbles, if you want it. it's estimated that completion time, based on 3 hours/day work on it, would be about 5 years. It has a deckled edge (following the shape of the marbles...) Want it... Thanks but I have enough trouble with my own marbles right now
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Saw this thread and really just want to wish you a happy birthday, Sean. Thank you Joolie...
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Well it's nice to know you have some. I lost mine aaaaaaaages ago......! chin up chum! It could be worse. You could be back in D-day! But you're not, and your pearls of wisdom are both insightful and thought-provoking. Here, most definitely, you are loved.
curiousnycgirl Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Just wanted to add my own chorus of happy birthday singing to your day! May you have many, MANY happy days in the upcoming year!
mickleb Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Sean... just think, the next time someone is wishing you that, you will be in a much better place, with much better people around you, and perhaps even a 'special someone' on your arm helping you blow out the candles... or at the very least helping to direct the firemen in to put em out!!! What a great way to look at it. That's cheered up my miserable holidays no end! Sean - have as much happiness today as possible. Make sure you treat yourself for the the next couple of days, too. Thank you for all your wonderful posts from your 38th year. I look forward to reading the wisdom a further year brings you. Very best wishes to you. x
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Sean... just think, the next time someone is wishing you that, you will be in a much better place, with much better people around you, and perhaps even a 'special someone' on your arm helping you blow out the candles... This thought is one of the better gifts I have received today. Thanks Kick...
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Sean - have as much happiness today as possible. Make sure you treat yourself for the the next couple of days, too. Thank you for all your wonderful posts from your 38th year. I look forward to reading the wisdom a further year brings you. Very best wishes to you. x Thanks much mick...
DenverBachelor Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 We have a great, 5000-piece double-sided jigsaw puzzle of marbles, if you want it. it's estimated that completion time, based on 3 hours/day work on it, would be about 5 years. I never understood why people would take a perfectly intact picture and then cut it up into little pieces only to try and put the pieces back together again to get the original picture back. That is, until I experienced relationships.
DenverBachelor Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I had plans of taking him to Paris, oh well... .... Hilton?
nobmagnet Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 doh im dim!! i was born in 1970 too. Should have studied harder in maths!!!! hahahah
DenverBachelor Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 and perhaps even a 'special someone' on your arm helping you blow out the candles... I'll help him blow out the candles but I'm not going to hang on to his arm.
Author sean1970 Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 I'll help him blow out the candles but I'm not going to hang on to his arm. You will and you will like it... Its in our bromance prenup...
mickleb Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 You will and you will like it... Its in our bromance prenup... :lmao::lmao:
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