jcs Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Hi all. Just looking for some help to figure out where things are going with my ex. You can find my whole story here- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t210913/ Quick history: -Dated for 2 years -Broke up 11 months ago -Went n/c for 2 months over the summer -Been on fairly friendly terms throughout our breakup other than during n/c -Both have very busy school schedules Well since we both got off for christmas break things have been going fairly well. We went out together the first night with some mutual friends and spent most of it together. I went out of town for christmas and she sent a merry christmas message. Yesterday when I got home I went out with some friends and she ended up meeting us there. Tonight we went to the mall together and then saw the new twilight movie (her choice). She also asked me to go to my friends new years party together. Things are going along fairly well but I don't no where this is all going. There has been no hand holding or kissing but she has gotten somewhat touchy feely with me at time. I haven't tried any hand holding or things like that because of a fear of rejection or pushing her away. I am very confused on what is going through her head and how I can move things further along the road to reconciliation. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 "So, are we really broken up, or quietly casually getting back into dating?" ask her.... depending on her reply, take it from there...........
Author jcs Posted January 1, 2010 Author Posted January 1, 2010 Just an update on new years- we went out to dinner with her parents and then hungout at her house for a bit. After that we went up to my friends party. Things went pretty well. I got a new years kiss from her at midnight. However around 130 she got sick and I had to hold her head up over the toilet. When she was feeling a little better i put her to bed and she asked me to stay. However when we were in bed I tried cuddling with her and she said that made her uncomfortable so I just left it alone. I am not to sure what to make of all of that.
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