bigapplejen Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Went on a date with a guy. We had dinner and then he walked me to the train station. I gave him a friendly kiss on the cheek, and he gave me a hug and said he hoped we could do it again. I got home and he send me a message, thanking me and said he had fun. Just wasnt sure if it went well or not, since i am used to guys coming on so strong, even on the first date.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Went on a date with a guy. We had dinner and then he walked me to the train station. I gave him a friendly kiss on the cheek, and he gave me a hug and said he hoped we could do it again. I got home and he send me a message, thanking me and said he had fun. Just wasnt sure if it went well or not, since i am used to guys coming on so strong, even on the first date. Was he smiling when he talks? Did he seem focused on you when you talked? Did he talk about future things, like "oh next time we should do this..." etc I just got off a date tonight, I think it went well... but actually, I act pretty much the same, very enthusiastic with everyone. So they can never tell!
Author bigapplejen Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 Was he smiling when he talks? Did he seem focused on you when you talked? Did he talk about future things, like "oh next time we should do this..." etc I just got off a date tonight, I think it went well... but actually, I act pretty much the same, very enthusiastic with everyone. So they can never tell! Yes he was smiling, was focused on me. We stayed in the restaurant until they closed.
boogieboy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 When you dont have to ask if it went well, it went real good. When you actually kiss the guy on the mouth, it went well.
alphamale Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 When you actually kiss the guy on the mouth, it went well. when you actually end up in the sack together it went great
D-Lish Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I'd say texting you after the date was a good sign. I think you'll know better if he calls to set up a second date.
Author bigapplejen Posted December 30, 2009 Author Posted December 30, 2009 when you actually end up in the sack together it went great very charming
Crazy Magnet Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I use the "after text" as my gauge. No text=very bad text=good kiss and scheduling a second date=awesome! I broke all sorts of dating rules with my last first date though and I texted HIM. I got the shy sense, plus he said he never texts. But I thought a "I had a great time" phone call made me look psycho. You can always probe a bit about "next time" and see how he responds.
monkey00 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 It sounds like it went well imo. Now you'll just have to wait and see if he sets up another date in the future.
sagetalk Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 You've got me on this one. I went out with a girl and she smiled the whole time, focused on me, body positioned towards me, talked back and forth the whole time. Sent a her text after the date and she just wanted to be friends because there was another guy she wanted more . That sucked, I'm sure I missed some signal.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 very charming Please ignore Alphamale, he's going through a crisis
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