dg2003 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I will try to keep this as short possible. I was with a guy for about 2 and a half years and we broke up. It was an abusive relationship and we just couldn't work it out, so I moved out of the house with my daughter (he is not her father). When we first broke up it was very hard for me but I started to feel okay. I met another guy and began seeing him. It's not very serious because he has a lot of commitment issues, and I guess so do I. He has also been very popular with women, he is a tattoo artist. Anyways my ex found out I was seeing this guy. At first he was very mad but as the months went by, he seems different. He is now wanting to work things out and he really does appear to have changed. Problem is...I fell in love with the other guy. He actually told me he loved me first. But I don't know if I could ever actually be in a relationship with him because of his past. He has always cheated on the girls he has been with. But I have never felt such an intense love for a guy as this one. I have tried to ignore it, to completely stop talking to him...and I can't. I know that if my ex finds out I am still talking to him, he will be furious, but I don't know how to stop. I also don't know if I can work things out with my ex because of all he has put me through. But the main reason, is because I'm so in love with this other guy. Is it possible to love them both? Or am I in denial about one of them, or both? It's been nine months since I have been seeing other guy, and it feels like i love him more and more each day. What do I do? Any advice would be helpful...
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